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Your Two Options For Making A Woman Orgasm

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Jason Julius from OrgasmArts.com here, and today we’re going to talk about how to make a woman orgasm.

Really you have two options when it comes to making the woman in your life have an orgasm.

You can either give her a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal orgasm.

A clitoral orgasm is the type of orgasm that the largest percentage of women are most familiar with because it’s often the type of orgasm they give themselves during masturbation.

A clitoral orgasm is achieved from either direct or indirect stimulation to the clitoris head with one’s finger or tongue. A clitoral orgasm is often described as more of a localized sensation rather than a full body type of orgasm.

Option two for giving a woman an orgasm is to give her a vaginal orgasm. The easiest way to give a woman a vaginal orgasm is to directly stimulate her G Spot with your finger.

The G Spot is located 1 to 2 inches inside the vagina along the front wall. You can give a woman a G Spot orgasm by stroking the G Spot using a come here motion with your index finger.

A G Spot orgasm is much more powerful than a clitoral orgasm and is often described as a full body orgasm experience and when done correctly can lead to a squirting orgasm which is one of the most powerful orgasms you can ever give a woman.

Female Squirting 101 – An Introduction To Female Ejaculation

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Jason Julius, from OrgasmArts.com, here to talk to you today about female squirting.

Female squirting is also known as a female squirting orgasm, a female ejaculation orgasm, or a gushing orgasm.

A female squirting orgasm most often occurs from direct stimulation to a woman’s G Spot using a “come here” motion with one’s index finger, however it can also occur from other types of stimulation as well.

The time it takes for a woman to have a female squirting orgasm from G Spot stimulation can vary from woman to woman, with 30 minutes of stimulation being on the higher end.

When a woman has a squirting orgasm the fluid shoots out of her urethra in a similar way that a man will ejaculate semen out of his penis at the time of orgasm.

The fluid, that is known as female ejaculate fluid, comes from the Skene’s gland, otherwise known as the female prostate.

It even has a composition somewhat similar to the fluid generated in males by the male prostate gland.

Some women will expel a lot of fluid with great force, while others will just have a dribble.

When a woman is getting close to squirting she will experience a sensation similar to needing to empty her bladder, however it’s not the need to urinate she’s feeling. It’s actually the build up of female ejaculate fluid that she is experiencing.

At this point she needs to relax and “push it out”.

Once a woman learns how to ejaculate she can have multiple female ejaculation orgasms during one session.

I hope you enjoyed this video about female squirting.

Best Personal Lubricant – Lube Review

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OK, you should know by now that whenever you stimulate your woman, whether it be her clitoris, her g-spot, a-spot, or any of her sensitive spots, you need to use lots of lube.

So, what’s the best lube to use?

Well, everyone is going to have their own personal preference, but I personally prefer 100% pure all natural grape seed oil.

Grape seed oil is not sold as a personal lubricant rather you can find it in most grocery stores in the cooking oils, however it works fantastic as a sexual lubricant.

It’s made by applying pressure to the seeds of grapes which then produces the oil.

Grape seed oil is very natural and contains a lot of vitamin E which is good for both her skin, and the inside of her vagina.

It is also the best massage oil, so you can start out with giving your woman a massage and blend the massage right into digital stimulation, which works great because her body and mind will already be relaxed.

Another great thing about Grape seed oil is that it lasts much longer than most other lubes, making it ideal for the type of direct stimulation techniques that I teach.

The only downside is that it’s not safe for use with condoms because it will weaken them.

If you’re going to be using a condom, you’ll need to use a water based lube. Something like astroglide.

One quick tip about water based lubricants is, use more than you think you need. I used to get frustrated with water based lubes because they always seemed to dry up or absorb too quickly. You’re going to need to use more than you would with grape seed oil, so just keep that in mind.

Of course, the entire reason for using lubricant is to make the experience of stimulating your woman to orgasm a pleasurable one.

A lot of guys make the mistake of thinking, “oh, she gets wet enough, I don’t need lubricant”. That’s a big mistake, because you are going to be applying firm pressure to areas with a lot of nerve endings. Even if it feels good to her during the stimulation, she may end of feeling soar later, so be sure to always use plenty of lube.

Of course, with all your lube you’re going to need a technique to go along with it.

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Squirting Orgasm Exercise [Video]

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Transcript of video:

I’ve received a few questions from guys on Facebook and through the newsletter who are having success giving their wives and girlfriends “normal” orgasms, but they haven’t gotten her to squirt yet and they want to know why. The email usually goes something like this…

“Great stuff Jason! I’m giving my wife tons of orgasms by using your techniques, but I haven’t quite gotten her to soak the bed yet. Am i doing something wrong?”

It’s a good question and since a few people have been asking it, I thought I’d just create this video and answer it for everyone.

As you should know by now, getting a woman to orgasm is a two part road of leading both her body and her mind. Without one or the other you’re not going to have much success. There are also a few right ways and a lot of wrong ways to go about this, and is something I cover fully in The Female Orgasm Blueprint.

If you’re unsure what the heck I’m talking about, go through the first couple modules of the Blueprint and it’ll all make sense. You can get access here

To keep the common thread of the questions I’m going to assume you can already give her “normal” orgasms and are looking how to get her to squirt. Which by the way is pretty normal, you gotta walk before you can run.

In some cases she’s probably just not comfortable yet with squirting and soaking the sheets. And she’s actually working harder on holding back the orgasm than she is at letting it happen. In these cases you just need to keep assuring her that it’s okay and to just “push it out.”

In other cases she’s wanting it to happen, but it’s just not and she doesn’t know why. The reason is because she likely has weak pelvic floor muscles or PC muscles.

When a woman has weak pelvic floor muscles it can be much harder for her to reach orgasm and when she does, it doesn’t feel as powerful as it could, and she’s certainly not going to be able to squirt.

To strengthen her pelvic floor muscles she needs to perform Kegel Exercises. Which is the act of contracting and relaxing the muscles that form part of the pelvic floor. These muscles are also responsible for stopping and starting the flow of urine.

First she needs to locate the muscles so she knows which ones to “work out”. The easiest way for her to locate her PC muscles is the next time she’s using the restroom instruct her to stop the flow of urine and have her take notice which muscles she’s “squeezed”(these are her PC Muscles).

Now that she knows which muscles to squeeze she can move on to doing the exercises. The great thing about Kegel exercises is she can do them anywhere and no one will ever know.

Have her squeeze her PC muscles as hard as she can, then hold for 3 – 5 seconds, then release and relax for 5 seconds and repeat.

I recommend starting out with doing 3 sets of 10 reps (squeeze, hold, release) with a 2 minute rest in between sets.

She’ll want to do this 3 to 4 times a day.

As her PC muscles get stronger and stronger she’ll notice her orgasm getting more and more powerful and she’ll be soaking the bed in no time 😉

I would encourage everyone to share this post with their partners because not only are Kegel exercises great for improving her orgasm, they are also great at preventing various other health problems.

Talk Soon,
Jason

P.S. I also wrote up a blog post talking specifically about Kegel exercises for
women.