Female Ejaculation

What Is A Squirting Orgasm?

By Jason Julius

Jason Julius, from OrgasmArts.com, back at it again today with another video to help you become a better lover.

In this video I’m going to be talking about the holy grail of female orgasms, otherwise known as the squirting orgasm.

A squirting orgasm is the most powerful orgasm you can ever give your woman.

The reason it’s called a squirting orgasm is because when a woman has one, she squirts fluid out of her urethra in a similar way to the way a man ejaculates out of his penis at the time of his orgasm.

The fluid that squirts out comes from the female prostate and is known as female ejaculate fluid.

The fluid contains glucose and even has a bit of a sweet taste.

During the squirting orgasm the woman will feel a huge rush of pleasure overtake her entire body. Some women will even shake and convulse in utter ecstasy.

A squirting orgasm most often occurs from direct stimulation to a woman’s G Spot using a very specific technique involving your fingers.

Female Squirting 101 – An Introduction To Female Ejaculation

By Jason Julius

Jason Julius, from OrgasmArts.com, here to talk to you today about female squirting.

Female squirting is also known as a female squirting orgasm, a female ejaculation orgasm, or a gushing orgasm.

A female squirting orgasm most often occurs from direct stimulation to a woman’s G Spot using a “come here” motion with one’s index finger, however it can also occur from other types of stimulation as well.

The time it takes for a woman to have a female squirting orgasm from G Spot stimulation can vary from woman to woman, with 30 minutes of stimulation being on the higher end.

When a woman has a squirting orgasm the fluid shoots out of her urethra in a similar way that a man will ejaculate semen out of his penis at the time of orgasm.

The fluid, that is known as female ejaculate fluid, comes from the Skene’s gland, otherwise known as the female prostate.

It even has a composition somewhat similar to the fluid generated in males by the male prostate gland.

Some women will expel a lot of fluid with great force, while others will just have a dribble.

When a woman is getting close to squirting she will experience a sensation similar to needing to empty her bladder, however it’s not the need to urinate she’s feeling. It’s actually the build up of female ejaculate fluid that she is experiencing.

At this point she needs to relax and “push it out”.

Once a woman learns how to ejaculate she can have multiple female ejaculation orgasms during one session.

I hope you enjoyed this video about female squirting.

Squirting Orgasm Exercise [Video]

By Jason Julius

Transcript of video:

I’ve received a few questions from guys on Facebook and through the newsletter who are having success giving their wives and girlfriends “normal” orgasms, but they haven’t gotten her to squirt yet and they want to know why. The email usually goes something like this…

“Great stuff Jason! I’m giving my wife tons of orgasms by using your techniques, but I haven’t quite gotten her to soak the bed yet. Am i doing something wrong?”

It’s a good question and since a few people have been asking it, I thought I’d just create this video and answer it for everyone.

As you should know by now, getting a woman to orgasm is a two part road of leading both her body and her mind. Without one or the other you’re not going to have much success. There are also a few right ways and a lot of wrong ways to go about this, and is something I cover fully in The Female Orgasm Blueprint.

If you’re unsure what the heck I’m talking about, go through the first couple modules of the Blueprint and it’ll all make sense. You can get access here

To keep the common thread of the questions I’m going to assume you can already give her “normal” orgasms and are looking how to get her to squirt. Which by the way is pretty normal, you gotta walk before you can run.

In some cases she’s probably just not comfortable yet with squirting and soaking the sheets. And she’s actually working harder on holding back the orgasm than she is at letting it happen. In these cases you just need to keep assuring her that it’s okay and to just “push it out.”

In other cases she’s wanting it to happen, but it’s just not and she doesn’t know why. The reason is because she likely has weak pelvic floor muscles or PC muscles.

When a woman has weak pelvic floor muscles it can be much harder for her to reach orgasm and when she does, it doesn’t feel as powerful as it could, and she’s certainly not going to be able to squirt.

To strengthen her pelvic floor muscles she needs to perform Kegel Exercises. Which is the act of contracting and relaxing the muscles that form part of the pelvic floor. These muscles are also responsible for stopping and starting the flow of urine.

First she needs to locate the muscles so she knows which ones to “work out”. The easiest way for her to locate her PC muscles is the next time she’s using the restroom instruct her to stop the flow of urine and have her take notice which muscles she’s “squeezed”(these are her PC Muscles).

Now that she knows which muscles to squeeze she can move on to doing the exercises. The great thing about Kegel exercises is she can do them anywhere and no one will ever know.

Have her squeeze her PC muscles as hard as she can, then hold for 3 – 5 seconds, then release and relax for 5 seconds and repeat.

I recommend starting out with doing 3 sets of 10 reps (squeeze, hold, release) with a 2 minute rest in between sets.

She’ll want to do this 3 to 4 times a day.

As her PC muscles get stronger and stronger she’ll notice her orgasm getting more and more powerful and she’ll be soaking the bed in no time 😉

I would encourage everyone to share this post with their partners because not only are Kegel exercises great for improving her orgasm, they are also great at preventing various other health problems.

Talk Soon,
Jason

P.S. I also wrote up a blog post talking specifically about Kegel exercises for
women.

Using Threshold Consciousness To Make Her Squirt

By Jason Julius

Threshold Consciousness One of the most common instances men run into when attempting to give their woman a full body squirting orgasm, is a sudden objection from her conscious mind. You know what I mean… You’re using techniques to explicitly send a flood of pleasure to your woman’s “sensitive spots”, and she loves how it feels. Then out of nowhere, she tells you to stop! There’s no fireworks, no sudden splash of ecstasy, no explosion of pleasure pulsing through her body causing her to shake uncontrollably. Nope, instead of giving into the intense sensation and letting go to orgasm, she abruptly interrupts her OWN chance to orgasm!

Why on earth would she deny her gift of primal pleasure? Well actually there could be a lot of reasons. Listen guys, when she gets to the edge, and is about to have a full body orgasm, the sensation can be overwhelming or down right scary in her mind. Especially if she’s never had a Vaginal Orgasm before. Her conscious mind might throw dozens of objections her way, and the notion of pushing forward or letting go could be scary in that moment.

The conscious mind doesn’t have a big role in such a primal act, however it will easily play the role as the Saboteur during sex if left unchecked. The conscious mind has been sorting out and solving problems all day long… Why not throw in some more worries when the pleasure party begins too? After all, that’s how we operate throughout 99% of the rest of our day to keep in control of our actions.

However, during sexual arousal the conscious mind needs to step aside. She needs to have a clear mind, and be absolutely present in order to become “out of control” and orgasm. That means no conscious objections telling her to pull back with nonsense thoughts of “What if I pee on him?” “Will I create a mess?” “Will he judge me?” “Am I being too naughty?” and the list could go on forever.

In our role as men, we can’t exactly jump inside her mind and control what she’s thinking. However, we can influence the “State” she goes into before and during our attempt to use friction on her sweet spots. This is where understanding the full picture of how her body and mind need to come together to orgasm is so important.

One way to illustrate this is using the concept of Threshold Consciousness. Threshold Consciousness is the mental state of someone who is moving towards sleep or wakefulness but has not yet completed the transition. In other words, it’s the state of dozing off to sleep, or just waking up. During this state the mind is completely relaxed, and there is very little conscious thought going on. This State is very similar to the state women go into when they have an orgasm.

What if you got her to this state and never really let her get out of it? You can then bypass her conscious objections all together and voila… Orgasm Magic! Her body will do what it naturally wants to do, which is let go and have a full body orgasm. She can leave the objections at the door, no matter what the cause. So what are some ways to do this?

Deep Massage Blended Into Stimulation: This is by far one of the easiest ways to do this. You’ve maybe heard me talk about using Massage to get her to Orgasmic State. That is because it allows her mind to become deeply relaxed. Some guys ask, “What if she starts to fall asleep?” My rely is: “GOOD!” When she starts to doze off from the massage, her mind is becoming quiet. Don’t let her fall completely asleep, but when she gets to the transition just before falling asleep, that’s the sweet spot. Now it’s time to turn Massage, into Arousal while keeping her body and mind in the same relaxed state. If you do it right, you’ll blend the massage into sexual escalation, then into vaginal stimulation in a fluid way as to not even give her mind the chance to start it’s typical chatter. If it ends with her body shaking, the bed wet, and her looking you in the eyes in amazement then you’ve done your job.

Wake Up Sex: Roll over in the morning and start by giving her a passionate wake up kiss. Assuming you’re not waking her up in the middle of the night, and she’s not late to get up for work, she should welcome the gesture. Transition that kiss into touching, and next into arousal. The basic idea here is to wake her up aroused and transition into stimulating her G Spot or A Spot before her conscious mind ever really gets the chance to start “thinking”. When she starts out in this “State” she’ll easily be able to orgasm. If you do it right she’ll go from “Wake Up Kiss” to “Oh my god, that was incredible, what did you do to me?” without knowing what hit her.

Try it out, and let me know what you think. Remember, the key is to help her get out of her own way so that she doesn’t have to “think” at all!

Talk Soon,
Jason Julius

Reader Question: Squirting

By Jason Julius

–Question–

I’ve made my lover squirt a couple of times thanks to your web site and it’s been great. The only thing is it just kind of trickles out. Is there any tips to helping her have a bigger one?

Should I stop and pull my fingers out when she is doing it instead of continuing to finger her or what?

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