Yes, you heard me correctly. Stress in the number one factor that
will inhibit any woman’s ability to orgasm.
Hopefully you understand by now that leading a woman to orgasm
requires guiding BOTH her body (physical) and mind (mental) to
orgasm, however stress is like a poison that will prevent any
attempt at getting her to the blissful state of body shaking climax
that her body is craving.
Stress leads to tension in the body which restricts blood flow and
the flow of endorphins which are essential for achieving orgasm,
especially squirting orgasms.
Stress and anxiety also release nasty chemicals like Adrenaline and
Cortisol which act like an “anti-orgasm” cocktail that will wreak
havoc on her physically and mentally.
On top of that, stress will also hinder her ability to let her mind
go and be in the moment.
Letting go mentally is one of the biggest hurdles most women have
that keep them from full body orgasms and if her brain is racing
with stressful thoughts about all her problems or insecurities the
last thing that is going to happen for her is an orgasm.
If your goal is to give her ground breaking orgasms you need to
understand this and eliminate stress as a factor so she can
completely enjoy her time alone with you.
Next time you are going to be intimate with her do the following…
1. Take control and lead her in the bedroom.
It’s no secret that women want a leader in the bedroom. Her time
alone with you should be an “escape” from the stresses of the outside
world. Women want to be with a man that they can surrender themselves
to and if she trusts you to lead her in the bedroom she will let go
2. Create a stress free intimate environment.
Dim the lights or lights some candles. Turn on some relaxing
sensual music. Create a clean, relaxed, distraction free environment that
instantly invites her to relax upon entering.
3. Give her a quick massage before you begin.
Massage is perfect for relieving tension in the body. It also
increases Nitric Oxide which relaxes the blood vessels and increases
blood flow to all parts of the body. Massage is perfect for giving
her time to become deeply relaxed and out of her head. This is the
perfect “in the moment” mindset she needs to be in in order to
4. Once she’s relaxed roll her onto her back and stimulate her
using the “Bullhorn” technique that I demonstrate in the G Spot
Module of The Female Orgasm Blueprint.
Make sure she continues to relax. Her reaction might be to tense
her body and her breathing may become shallow.
Keep her relaxed and tell her to only concentrate on taking slow
deep breathes as you continue to stimulate her all the way to orgasm.
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Ricardo Aguirre says
What is the bullhorn technique?
I used your technique on an ex, like step by step (she didn’t know that). The only problem I encountered was she already squirt before and I wanted to meet a woman who hasn’t yet for S & G lol. When it happened I had to changed all of my sheets because it was everywhere! She was very happy and clingy…. Thank you JJ!
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