Female Orgasm

How To Find The A-spot [Video Tutorial]

By Jason Julius

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Hey guys, Jason Julius here, and in this video, I wanna talk to you about how to find the A-spot. Now, the A spot is my favorite spot in giving women full body vaginal orgasms, full body squirting orgasms. And, you know, some women are more responsive to G-spot stimulation. Some are more responsive to A-spot stimulation. I would say that more women are actually more responsive to A-spot stimulation.

So how do you find the A-spot? Well, the A-spot is the vaginal fornix, which is the little rim that goes all the way around the cervix, which, as you can imagine, the cervix is all the way in, at the deepest level. And that little area around the cervix is the vaginal fornix, the A-spot. Now, this is the muscles that contract during a vaginal orgasm, so if you can stimulate these, you can make her orgasm for sure. So, you know, regular women who are like, “I don’t know if I can have a vaginal orgasm.” You stimulate the A-spot, you’re gonna give her that amazing first experience with it, because 80% of women still have never had a vaginal orgasm, which is crazy. It’s one of the most powerful orgasms a woman can ever have. So how do you find it?

Well, what I want you to do is have your woman lay on her back, and you’re facing her. You’re gonna be palm up, and you’re going to put your…insert your finger, your finger, because the best way to find it and be able to stimulate it directly is with the tip of your finger, to be able to understand where it’s at. And so you’re gonna go in palm up, and you’re gonna go in as far as you can with your index finger or your middle finger. Your middle finger might be a little bit longer. And you’re gonna go back as far as you can. And what you’re going to do, is you’re going to do a “come here” type of a motion. And I don’t want you to be totally concerned about whether or not you’re far enough back to touch the rim that’s around her cervix. I want you to just go back as far as you can. I want you to go pass the G-spot, which is about two knuckles in. I want you to go all the way in, and I want you to pull down on the front wall of her vagina. And what I want you to do is continue to do that and watch her reaction to it.

And I don’t have particularly big hands, and I don’t always get all the way back to the rim right before her cervix. But what I will do is I’ll watch for the area where she’ll respond. And I think that the value is in understanding how her body reacts. And you can oftentimes stimulate her in a way that she’s never been stimulated before, because a penis can’t do this while it’s that deep inside of her. But once you actually give her that orgasm before sex begins, that entire area becomes so sensitive that she’ll have…she’ll be 10 times more likely to orgasm during sex, which makes sex amazing. And the amazing thing about the vaginal fornix, the A-spot is that, that whole area, all the way around the cervix, is very sensitive, not just the front wall, like the G-spot. So you can give her orgasms from the back of her A-spot, or even via anal stimulation, because that’s the back of the A-spot as well. There’s so many variations to this, and so many different ways that you can touch her. But that will give you an idea on how to find the A-spot, and get you started, and then you can build it up from there.

So hope you loved this video. I hope you hit the like button and subscribe, because I’m coming out with videos weekly. It’s my mission to help more men and women connect on a deep level and have amazing, amazing connections, and understand each other. And I feel men can be way more confident by understanding these little things about a woman’s body, and it can make a huge difference. I’ve been doing this for over a decade, and I’ve helped over 50,000 men and women all over the world. It’s been my privilege. I thank you so much for watching this video, and head over to my blog, jasonjulius.com, where you can learn a whole heck of a lot more about this stuff. So thank you for watching, and I’ll see you in the next one.

What Exactly is a Female Squirting Orgasm?

By Jason Julius

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Hey guys, Jason Julius here, and in this video here I wanna talk about what is a full-body female squirting orgasm. Well full-body squirting orgasm is the best orgasm you can ever give a women. But unfortunately, many, many women, the majority of women, over 80% of women have never experienced this full body ejaculatory orgasm, and it’s been my mission for the last 10 years to help people understand this, and I’ve had the great fortune of teaching over 50,000 men, women, and couples in various countries how to experience this orgasm.

So what does that mean, a full-body squirting orgasm, what is that, right? And why haven’t so many women experienced it? Well, typically women when they work…when they masturbate, rather, they stimulate their clitoris, right? The clitoris is probably one of the most sensitive part of the female anatomy. It’s the…it’s all the nerves of your penis just shrunken down to a small area, and when stimulated, she can have an amazing orgasm, right? But typically the thing about a clitoral orgasm is a woman can only have one and after that, it becomes very, you know, overly sensitive and it’s hard to have another one. But because women typically masturbate that way and experience orgasms that way because it is the most common way, they’re not used to having a vaginal orgasm which comes from stimulation to either the G-spot or the A-spot. And this is what gives us the really awesome opportunity to touch her in a way she’s never been touched before and gives us the opportunity to give her an orgasm maybe she’s never experienced before, and hopefully there’s a very different dialogue that you’ve typically heard in common culture where everything’s emphasized about like it’s just random fiction or big anatomy that actually makes a woman orgasm. That has nothing to do with it. If you actually give a woman a vaginal orgasm before sex begins, she’ll be 10 times more likely to orgasm from sex. And the best way to do that is to stimulate her directly in either her G-spot or A-spot using your finger, because your finger can bend and it can directly stimulate those areas. So the G-spot and the A-spot are instrumental in a woman experiencing a full-body ejaculatory-type orgasm.

So, as you stimulate the front wall of her vagina or her vaginal fornix which is the A-spot, you’re going to feel the inside of her vagina begin to swell up, and what that is is that’s the female prostate, the Skene’s gland, beginning to fill up with ejaculatory fluid, and it’s an amazing feeling and an amazing experience to watch your woman just, you know, squirm in absolute ecstasy as this feeling starts to build up and as she gets fully close to it and you continue to stimulate her, the front wall of her vagina will push your finger out or push your penis out if your penis is inside of her, and she just explodes and has this ejaculatory orgasm. Now I wanna be very clear here that when a woman has a squirting orgasm, the ejaculate comes out of her urethra, her pee hole, just like male, you know, ejaculatory fluid comes out the pee hole, not her vagina, right, it comes out of her pee hole, and it’s not pee, it’s actually ejaculatory fluid, very similar in chemistry to male ejaculatory fluid because it comes from the Skene’s gland, which is the female prostate. And so this amazing, amazing build up and release is one of the most amazing experiences a woman can have, it gets her very turned on, makes her absolutely love sex, makes her feel like you’re the best lover she’s ever had, and it’s been my mission to help people understand that so that they can connect on a way deeper level, have a deeper relationship.

And I hope you love the content in this video and I hope that helps you understand things a little bit more, and I hope you subscribe because I come out with videos like this weekly. Check out my other videos that are already in my YouTube as well, and, you know, hit the like button, but also check out jasonjulius.com because you’re gonna find a whole ton of information about, you know, giving women full-body orgasms and things like that. So thank you for watching and I’ll see you in the next video.

How to Quickly Find the G Spot

By Jason Julius

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Hey guys, Jason Julius here, and in this video, we’re gonna talk about how to find the G-spot. So the G-spot is a very sensitive part inside of a woman’s vagina that when stimulated correctly, you can lead her to one of the best orgasms she’s ever experienced. When you give a woman a vaginal orgasm from stimulating the inside of her vagina, you can absolutely blow her mind and that can really open up her sexuality to experience things like female ejaculation and things like that. But in order to do that, right, we need to understand where to touch her. And one of the most important parts, I would say, is the G-spot, the G-spot and the A-spot.

But starting first with the G-spot, that is a spot that was originally hypothesized about by Dr. Grafenberg, which, you know, when he called the G-spot, it kinda sounds a little bit like mystical or weird or whatever, but it’s actually just a really sensitive spot on the inside of a woman’s vagina. So how do you find it, right? The easiest way to find it is with your finger because we can directly touch and stimulate that area.

So if you have your woman laying on her back and you approach her with your finger facing up and you go, I don’t know, about a knuckle and a half to two knuckles in…I have about a medium-sized fingers, so I’m about two knuckles in, and you go to the front wall of her vagina, which means you press up, you’re gonna look for the wrinkled or ridged area compared to the smooth area around it. Now, she’s not very stimulated yet or she’s not very turned on, it may just feel flat and you might not even be able to know where’s the G-spot, but don’t get too hung up on that. You want to just start to go about that far in and you want to start to stimulate her. And in order to do that, you might just push up with her finger and do like a come here type motion like this on that front wall of her vagina. And you wanna do kind of a firm motion and kinda pull towards yourself. Again, she’s on her back and you’re pushing up and you’re pulling this direction.

And what I want you to do, more than getting caught up on, “Have I found her G-spot,” watch how she reacts, because rather than thinking, “Am I feeling the right area,” you should watch how she’s actually reacting to know, “Am I actually stimulating an area that she really, really, really enjoys?” Because for some women, they are very responsive to G-spot stimulation. For some, they’re not. A lotta women…or actually…I should actually say the majority of women are used to, you know, masturbation via clitoral stimulation, so they masturbate, that’s what they’re used to. So this internal vaginal stimulation can be very different, sometimes even overwhelming. And, you know, you’ll watch her body and how she maybe kinda squirms a little bit, see what she likes and that’s how you should gauge whether or not you’re not at the G-spot and whether or not she’s liking it. If she doesn’t like the G…I mean, not if she doesn’t like G-spot, but she’s not responding as much to the G-spot, keep playing around that area, keep just doing that, you know, pulling technique that I’m talking about and then try venturing a little bit further back which you’re gonna find her A-spot, which is a topic for another video. But that’s a great way to find the G-spot. I hope that helps a lot.

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Female Ejaculation | What to Expect

By Jason Julius

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All sexually healthy women are capable of full-body squirting orgasms, and they’re probably the best way to blow any woman’s mind in the bedroom. So, what should you expect when you first set out to give a woman a squirting orgasm? Hey, guys. Jason Julius here, and in this video let’s talk about what to expect when you first set out to give your woman a squirting orgasm. So, I’ll oftentimes get questions and comments from guys who have just learned maybe some new techniques, and they want to go apply this, or they have applied it, and sometimes their expectations as to what to expect with their loved one is a little bit off. So I want to talk to you about how you should approach this when you are first starting out giving any woman a full-body squirting orgasm.

Now, first of all, you know, you’re going to want to focus on, first and foremost, being very close with your partner, just having a great connection and not having super crazy expectations. And I promise you that will make it a lot easier for it to just happen. You certainly don’t want her to have any expectation that she has to squirt, otherwise she’s not going to be able to get it out of her head. And as you probably or hopefully already know, the mental side of things is the bigger part of getting her to orgasm in the first place. So if you tell her, “Hey, I’m gonna give you a squirting orgasm,” she’ll have all kinds of expectations for herself that is gonna not allow her to actually let go and actually have the orgasm. So that is going to work against you.

Now, when you set out, and you are actually going down there to maybe, say, use a G-spot or A-spot technique, and you go inside of her, your expectation at that point should be to just give her a vaginal orgasm, see what her body responds to. Is she very vaginally orgasmic? Or has she never had a vaginal orgasm before? These are things that you need to understand about her body first. And so you might spot with her G-spot, see if she responds to that. Go with her A-spot. Whichever one that she responds to the most as you, you know, continue to stimulate that area, again, your goal is to just give her a vaginal orgasm. And you’ll begin to feel the front wall of her vagina start to swell up. That’s the urethral sponge, the female prostate, and as it begins to swell, that’s the ejaculate fluid. And you’ll know that she’s getting close to having a vaginal orgasm.

Now, at the time that she has the vaginal orgasm, she needs to push out. And so oftentimes, women, which is understandable, will oftentimes clamp their PC muscle and not let the ejaculate come out which will kinda rob her of, you know, most of the orgasm. She won’t be able to have that release. She’ll hold back. It’ll still be a vaginal orgasm, but she won’t get that full release that comes with it, so you’re kind of up against, you know, her expectation of her own body. She doesn’t want to pee on the bed. She doesn’t understand oftentimes if she’s never ejaculated before that it’s okay to push it out.

And so what I’ll often do is I won’t have a conversation about squirting orgasms, but as I feel her getting close to having that ejaculation and having that vaginal orgasm, I’ll just say, “Push out.” Because she’s already so outside of her mind, she’s so into letting you take charge, take control, oftentimes, just the command, “Push out,” when you know she’s having a vaginal orgasm will get her to push out. And she’ll surprise herself and have the squirting orgasm. But if she’s never done that before, she may be resistant to that, so be okay with that. Because you’re at this point learning what her body loves, giving her a vaginal orgasm, which will already blow her mind, and then you can then introduce her to that idea that she can squirt once, you know, you have the conversation afterwards. And say, “Hey, you know, did you know that you were close to, you know, having a squirting orgasm, and if you just would’ve pushed out…” She’ll be like, “Really?” You know, and depending on her level of comfort with that, you know, then you might be able to help her with the idea of pushing out.

And so, what do you expect then when she does ejaculate? This is another question that comes up, because what you oftentimes she in pornography is not a great depiction of what a squirting orgasm looks like. Most of the time it’s not real. I’m not saying that there isn’t some real ejaculations, but a lot of times it’s just staged. One way that you can tell whether or not it is a real squirting orgasm is you can determine is it coming out of her urethra, which is her pee hole. That’s where female ejaculate comes from. That’s when she truly has an, you know, ejaculatory orgasm, and some porn-stars can. But oftentimes it’s more about creating a scene for men to masturbate to, so they will stage the ejaculation. So, all of the sudden fluid comes gushing out of the vagina, and that’s not what a squirting orgasm looks like. A powerful squirting orgasm could soak the wall behind me, but a typical squirting orgasm, at least starting out when you first give her one may just be a little dribble that comes out. And it may be because she almost kinda wasn’t even ready for it type of situation, or it might squirt out a little bit. This is something to build upon. This is something to expect when you’re starting out. Yes, eventually she may soak the bed, you know, or wherever you’re having sex at. She may be able to ejaculate a lot. She may be able to ejaculate often, but starting out, your expectation should be to give her that vaginal orgasm. See if she’s gonna let it out or not feel comfortable letting it out, and then build upon that.

I had a gentleman email me and say, you know, “I gave my girlfriend a vaginal orgasm. It was her first vaginal orgasm. She said she loved it, but just a little bit came out,” and he seemed almost disappointed by that. And I bring this up because this is sometimes what men will wonder, “Did I do it? Did I accomplish what I wanted to accomplish?” And I think that’s because us men are so goal-orientated that we overlook the whole concept is to become very close with her and, you know, direct her mind and body to the best level of pleasure that she could ever, ever hope for. Or many times women don’t even know they can have that orgasm, so you can absolutely blow her mind. But don’t ever discount the fact that you even got her close to a vaginal orgasm, and then if you gave her a vaginal orgasm, that’s even better. And if she squirted a little bit, and a little bit came out, that’s a great start. And then you build upon that because you’re going to know what her body responds to. You’re gonna help her understand that she can let go, and then you can even help her understand that as she strengthens her PC muscles, she’ll be able to even shoot harder and farther and have even stronger orgasms.

But, you know, you gotta take it one step at a time and not expect a woman to go from never having a squirting orgasm to just, you know, soaking the bed. I’ve seen it happen many times. I’m not saying it can’t happen, but that’s awesome when that happens. But it’s just as equally awesome when she has a great vaginal orgasm, and a little bit comes out. And if every time she has a squirting orgasm, it’s, you know, super-pleasurable, but only a little bit comes out, that is still a squirting orgasm. And that is still an incredible, incredible experience to give your partner. So, I hope that clarifies things up as far as what to expect when you’re first starting out giving any woman a squirting orgasm. Hey guys. Real quick before you go, if you like the content in this video, go ahead and hit the “Like” button below, and make sure and leave a comment and let me know what you think and ask any questions that you might have. And also, don’t forget to hit the “Subscribe” button, because I have some really cool content planned. I’m going to be coming out with videos weekly, and I don’t want you to miss a thing. So, thanks for watching, and I’ll see you in the next one.

Penis Thrusting Tips to Give Your Woman an Unforgettable Experience

By Jason Julius

Believe it or not there is an art to penetrating your woman and the way you thrust in and out of her pussy. It’s not all just about jackhammering away like you seen in porn. Sure, she may like it hard and fast at some points during sex, but chances are she’s going to enjoy it more if you vary your thrusts a bit.

The first thing to understand is that women love the first thrust. Every single woman I’ve ever been with will let out a big moan when she feels you enter her fully for the first time. Knowing this I always like to tease a bit and build up some anticipation before sliding in fully the first time. This usually involves rubbing your penis head on the inside and out of her pussy lips and rubbing the tip of your penis on her clitoris. Another thing I like to do is slide my penis up and down the outside of her vagina, but not penetrate her. Think of a hotdog sliding in and out of a bun. And you can always just rest the tip of your penis at the opening of her vagina while you kiss, etc. (This will drive her wild.)

There are two basic types of thrusting. The shallow thrust and the deep thrust. Shallow thrusting allows you to stimulate the opening of her vagina up to about an inch deep, which for many women is a very sensitive part of the vagina. Also, the opening of her vagina is often the tightest part, so shallow thrusts allow you to concentrate a great deal of stimulation on the head of your penis and just below, which feels awesome.

The deep thrust can be extremely pleasurable for the both of you. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of being fully inside your woman and hearing her moan with pleasure. Deep thrusting can allow you to aim for her G-spot and it can also allow you to position your pelvic bone on her clitoris or the area around her clitoris allowing her to rub up against you to trigger a clitoral orgasm. I explain a technique called the CAT here that works great for giving her a clitoral orgasm during penetration. One thing to note about deep thrusting is that if your woman’s vagina is particularly shallow or your penis is particularly long, it could be uncomfortable to go too deep too fast, so just keep that in mind.

Ultimately you’ll want to experiment with both deep and shallow thrusts with varying speeds. Not only will varying your thrusting style give her an incredible experience, but it can also help you last longer during sex. For example, one of my favorite moves is to give my woman five or so deep thrusts and then, on the sixth one, thrust deep and just leave my penis deep inside of her vagina for about a second or so, and if your woman is doing Kegel exercises, she can squeeze your penis with her vagina at the same time. Believe me this feels amazing and allows you to make sure you don’t overstimulate yourself too quickly. If you wanna learn all my tips for lasting longer during sex, check out my Extreme Stamina course here.

Like with any sexual techniques, the key is to keep an open line of communication with your partner and try lots of different thrusting styles, and in no time you’ll discover what drives her wild and gives you ultimate pleasure.