All sexually healthy women are capable of full-body squirting orgasms, and they’re probably the best way to blow any woman’s mind in the bedroom. So, what should you expect when you first set out to give a woman a squirting orgasm? Hey, guys. Jason Julius here, and in this video let’s talk about what to expect when you first set out to give your woman a squirting orgasm. So, I’ll oftentimes get questions and comments from guys who have just learned maybe some new techniques, and they want to go apply this, or they have applied it, and sometimes their expectations as to what to expect with their loved one is a little bit off. So I want to talk to you about how you should approach this when you are first starting out giving any woman a full-body squirting orgasm.
Now, first of all, you know, you’re going to want to focus on, first and foremost, being very close with your partner, just having a great connection and not having super crazy expectations. And I promise you that will make it a lot easier for it to just happen. You certainly don’t want her to have any expectation that she has to squirt, otherwise she’s not going to be able to get it out of her head. And as you probably or hopefully already know, the mental side of things is the bigger part of getting her to orgasm in the first place. So if you tell her, “Hey, I’m gonna give you a squirting orgasm,” she’ll have all kinds of expectations for herself that is gonna not allow her to actually let go and actually have the orgasm. So that is going to work against you.
Now, when you set out, and you are actually going down there to maybe, say, use a G-spot or A-spot technique, and you go inside of her, your expectation at that point should be to just give her a vaginal orgasm, see what her body responds to. Is she very vaginally orgasmic? Or has she never had a vaginal orgasm before? These are things that you need to understand about her body first. And so you might spot with her G-spot, see if she responds to that. Go with her A-spot. Whichever one that she responds to the most as you, you know, continue to stimulate that area, again, your goal is to just give her a vaginal orgasm. And you’ll begin to feel the front wall of her vagina start to swell up. That’s the urethral sponge, the female prostate, and as it begins to swell, that’s the ejaculate fluid. And you’ll know that she’s getting close to having a vaginal orgasm.
Now, at the time that she has the vaginal orgasm, she needs to push out. And so oftentimes, women, which is understandable, will oftentimes clamp their PC muscle and not let the ejaculate come out which will kinda rob her of, you know, most of the orgasm. She won’t be able to have that release. She’ll hold back. It’ll still be a vaginal orgasm, but she won’t get that full release that comes with it, so you’re kind of up against, you know, her expectation of her own body. She doesn’t want to pee on the bed. She doesn’t understand oftentimes if she’s never ejaculated before that it’s okay to push it out.
And so what I’ll often do is I won’t have a conversation about squirting orgasms, but as I feel her getting close to having that ejaculation and having that vaginal orgasm, I’ll just say, “Push out.” Because she’s already so outside of her mind, she’s so into letting you take charge, take control, oftentimes, just the command, “Push out,” when you know she’s having a vaginal orgasm will get her to push out. And she’ll surprise herself and have the squirting orgasm. But if she’s never done that before, she may be resistant to that, so be okay with that. Because you’re at this point learning what her body loves, giving her a vaginal orgasm, which will already blow her mind, and then you can then introduce her to that idea that she can squirt once, you know, you have the conversation afterwards. And say, “Hey, you know, did you know that you were close to, you know, having a squirting orgasm, and if you just would’ve pushed out…” She’ll be like, “Really?” You know, and depending on her level of comfort with that, you know, then you might be able to help her with the idea of pushing out.
And so, what do you expect then when she does ejaculate? This is another question that comes up, because what you oftentimes she in pornography is not a great depiction of what a squirting orgasm looks like. Most of the time it’s not real. I’m not saying that there isn’t some real ejaculations, but a lot of times it’s just staged. One way that you can tell whether or not it is a real squirting orgasm is you can determine is it coming out of her urethra, which is her pee hole. That’s where female ejaculate comes from. That’s when she truly has an, you know, ejaculatory orgasm, and some porn-stars can. But oftentimes it’s more about creating a scene for men to masturbate to, so they will stage the ejaculation. So, all of the sudden fluid comes gushing out of the vagina, and that’s not what a squirting orgasm looks like. A powerful squirting orgasm could soak the wall behind me, but a typical squirting orgasm, at least starting out when you first give her one may just be a little dribble that comes out. And it may be because she almost kinda wasn’t even ready for it type of situation, or it might squirt out a little bit. This is something to build upon. This is something to expect when you’re starting out. Yes, eventually she may soak the bed, you know, or wherever you’re having sex at. She may be able to ejaculate a lot. She may be able to ejaculate often, but starting out, your expectation should be to give her that vaginal orgasm. See if she’s gonna let it out or not feel comfortable letting it out, and then build upon that.
I had a gentleman email me and say, you know, “I gave my girlfriend a vaginal orgasm. It was her first vaginal orgasm. She said she loved it, but just a little bit came out,” and he seemed almost disappointed by that. And I bring this up because this is sometimes what men will wonder, “Did I do it? Did I accomplish what I wanted to accomplish?” And I think that’s because us men are so goal-orientated that we overlook the whole concept is to become very close with her and, you know, direct her mind and body to the best level of pleasure that she could ever, ever hope for. Or many times women don’t even know they can have that orgasm, so you can absolutely blow her mind. But don’t ever discount the fact that you even got her close to a vaginal orgasm, and then if you gave her a vaginal orgasm, that’s even better. And if she squirted a little bit, and a little bit came out, that’s a great start. And then you build upon that because you’re going to know what her body responds to. You’re gonna help her understand that she can let go, and then you can even help her understand that as she strengthens her PC muscles, she’ll be able to even shoot harder and farther and have even stronger orgasms.
But, you know, you gotta take it one step at a time and not expect a woman to go from never having a squirting orgasm to just, you know, soaking the bed. I’ve seen it happen many times. I’m not saying it can’t happen, but that’s awesome when that happens. But it’s just as equally awesome when she has a great vaginal orgasm, and a little bit comes out. And if every time she has a squirting orgasm, it’s, you know, super-pleasurable, but only a little bit comes out, that is still a squirting orgasm. And that is still an incredible, incredible experience to give your partner. So, I hope that clarifies things up as far as what to expect when you’re first starting out giving any woman a squirting orgasm. Hey guys. Real quick before you go, if you like the content in this video, go ahead and hit the “Like” button below, and make sure and leave a comment and let me know what you think and ask any questions that you might have. And also, don’t forget to hit the “Subscribe” button, because I have some really cool content planned. I’m going to be coming out with videos weekly, and I don’t want you to miss a thing. So, thanks for watching, and I’ll see you in the next one.
Benjamin waldory says
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I came across your articles after curiously surfing the subject, more so for further info than a how to.
From personal experience this is very much real & not a phenomenon. My previous wife was let’s say, not a “Squirter” as such, but did cum with fluids a percentage of the time. I would not consider that I was the cause. I think guys need to not look upon themselves as sex Gods if their women cum like a volcano springs. It is after all a joint affair.
My later partner of 5 years & now wife were intimate early in the piece, although it took me a while to become confident after a 21 year monogamous relationship with the ex. I had however discovered the infamous G Spot years ago and I soon found it again with my new girl, slightly different texture but never the less the same.
Her first experience once I hit the mark during foreplay with my mid & index fingers was less than comfortable for her, as in all her 50 plus years, with prior hubbies & partners had never felt such a force. within, especially when the tap turned on. She was extremely embarrassed & apologetic to me.
Over time she began to accept her fate & relish its pleasure, although was quite happy to have, let’s say normal sex without the waterworks, a quickie.
We, I say we, because as my earlier comment stated it is a joint affair, have pursued different methods & techniques using alternative toys as part of our fun. With a bullet or larger G Spot vibrator externally on her clit in conjunction with oral and fingers up on the GS we find it very easy to achieve the flow and ultimate external clitoral orgasm that most women can have.
Out of the blue one day after a lengthy play & her external pleasures complete, whilst I was fulfilling my part of the deal, I nailed the spot during intercourse, just standard old missionary posi , she exploded internally.
I cannot explain the sensation other than incredible. When her blood pressure finally dropped & she regained her breath, all she said was, “That was so intense”, to which I agreed. Neither of us had ever experienced such an intense internal female orgasm like it. I must admit my ego did skyrocket.
From that moment, with our method now perfected we always obtained clitoral, then intense vaginal orgasm, much to her liking, although the fluid amounts at times still embarrasses her.
I would not say that she keeps wanting more, because as her 50’s are progressing she has lost the libido a tad, although mine is still strong. I guess I can live with that, as the saying goes, “Quality over Quantity”.
A couple of definite points in relation to;
Plenty of foreplay & talk, know and feel confident with your partner.
A good towel is required below, you will get wet, as will the bed.
I believe the ejaculation fluid is not urine and in my opinion tastes great. I love it.
Be prepared for a windy reception, if your nose is a little close. You may find she will pass wind under the pressure below, don’t make her feel embarrassed about that.
It’s like leaning to ride a bike, one day you won’t need the training wheels anymore.
helpful for sure–a new subject for me and all my past women for that matter I am assuming since it never came up, so to speak! DJ
Angelo Giordano says
your videos are always very informative.do you have any videos on ED? with the help of your videos I have turned my girlfriend into a raging orgasmic woman and we both love it but when it comes time for me to penetrate her I am not always hard enough and I am as horny as I was when I was 18!any suggestions?
Wayne Wissman says
I was introduced to my girlfriend’s squirting orgasm by accident. We had been having sex for about a year when one night I felt a gush of fluid. As she was squirting she said “Oh know” . She was as surprised as I was because at 66 this was her first time ever squirting during sex. Maybe we are getting more comfortable with each other and /or I have improved my technique but she squirts every time we have sex now. Her squirting orgasm is truly a result of the A spot or deep spot because she is extremely flexible and always puts her legs high in the air up over her head. This position allows me to feel like a porn start and get in very deep. Its this position or A spot that has caused all her squirting. We sometimes forget to get a towel and she or I will stop during foreplay to get one. If not she will leave a square foot wet spot on the sheets. Even with a towel there will be a wet spot afterwards.
She has seemed a bit embarrassed about it and I have insured her that it is great and not to hold back.
After viewing your video I ask her each time before sex if she needs to pee first.
From your videos I have now been successful in getting her to have a squirting orgasm from massaging her G spot. And when I feel her G spot balloon I will quickly pull out my fingers and watch her squirt across the bed. This is absolutely amazing because this intense orgasm will make her whole body shiver.
This is great for my ego cause I somehow I have caused a 66 year old women to have a squirting orgasm for the first time in her life.
I have met my match with a willing partner as we average making love over 7 times/ week. Not bad for a retired couple.
Thank you for your great information. I only wish I could share my results with my guy friends, but I love this woman and don’y kiss and tell.
Russell J. Anderson says
Greg Jones says
Love it cant wait to try.
I enjoy your information ! It’s great stuff !! I love sex and all the above ! I want it all the time ! But my wife is one of those woman that doesn’t like it ! So she stop wanting it
She says it’s not for her ! She like it just for having kids ! She is one that doesn’t like to have fun , trying different ways or even exploring !! So it’s been a lot of years seems we have done a thing in the bedroom ! So I went to self pleasure , eating ! That tells you what has happen ! Now over weight and pissed off ! I feel like cheating on her just to get companyship and feeling wanted ! Feeling really bad about now ! With all of the
Of the stress of it all ! I have ED now to fight with ! It’s hell in every way ! Sorry for the
Unloading like this on your great teaching lessons ! But felt like letting it out ! Keep up the great help to all of the men and weman needing help out here !!!!
Would like to know what the “A spot” is?
Jason Julius says
I have a YouTube video about it.
Can’t wait to try this !!
Houdini Graham says
great tips thanks!
Always feels pain when penis entered inside vagina then pinch my legs
how to reduce the pain
More 4 play man. Make sure she’s super juicy before entering her with your penis. Enter slow too. Slide up and down her clit with your mushroom tip. This will increase the response time from the Skenes glands, so she gets soaked quicker & her vagina relaxes more so entry is more pleasureable for both of you. Good luck dude!