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Getting a woman into “state” so that she can orgasm is sometimes the most elusive part of getting her over the edge to let go and have a full body orgasm.
There’s a part of the brain responsible for impulse control, it’s called the Dorsolateral Prefrontal Cortex. This is the part of your brain that keeps you “in control”. When it comes to giving women orgasms she needs to learn how to be “out of control” in order to let go and have an orgasm. Hence, the “Art of not giving a f*ck” means to practice getting to an uninhibited state. There are many ways you can help your woman get to this state.
You need to understand that in order to make her comfortable letting go to orgasm with you she must feel SAFE. She must trust and respect you and feel comfortable letting go.
Beyond safety, you need to understand how to pump up her desire and make her feel sexy. As a guy, when you see her naked you get turned on instantly like a light switch. Women are different in that desire is more contextual, thus taking more “influence” to get dialed up. That’s why things like storyline, foreplay, anticipation, dominance, and the context of the situation effect her desire at any given moment.
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P.S. The state you or your partner go into during sex effects how you experience orgasms. Understanding “state” is also important for men, as understanding how it effects male orgasm can keep you in control, allowing you to last longer during sex. I cover this in detail and a lot more in my new program Extreme Stamina.