In this post I’m going to clear the air about something I get asked about a lot… sex positions. Put away your Kama Sutra books and stop your warm up stretches because I’m going to cut to the chase… tangling your bodies up in ridiculous ways and focusing on sex positions is not the answer to better sex, or giving women orgasms for that matter. Let me explain…
It never fails, when men learn what I teach, the first thing most guys ask is, “Hey Jason, what’s the best sex position to make her orgasm?”
I almost don’t know how to answer this question. It’s like someone asking a car expert if there is a better way to sit in a car to make it go faster. The question itself doesn’t even make sense. Without them knowing the distinctions of how to use the pedals and the steering wheel, or understanding what’s under the hood, what the conditions of the road are, and the basic laws of gravity, it seems like you have to help them learn what the concept of “driving” is before they can think about “going fast”.
(“driving”= all the physical, mental, and social distinctions that influence female orgasm,
“going fast”= giving women orgasms)
I think that one of the biggest misconceptions stemming from mainstream society is: in order to be better at sex you need to tangle your bodies up in dozens of funky positions and call upon mystical energies from the universe of ying and yang or something weird like that.
The naive ignorance that encompasses sex is derived from the reality that sex is a taboo subject. We all have sex, our ancestors have been doing it for thousands of generations, and there have been civilizations before us that were much more open to discussing this subject, especially how to be good at it. These civilizations of the past would have loved to have all the tools of science, anatomy, psychology, attraction, social dynamics and all the incredible distinctions we can make about human sexuality using these modern tools.
However, today the very topic of sex exists in a bubble of taboo, meaning no one really examines it the way other human experiences are studied because it’s still considered a taboo subject. No one talks about it because unfortunately the most incredible part of our human existence (our desire to mate, experience intercourse, and create another life) lives in a shroud of naughty shame and is considered down right impolite or wrong to talk about.
This does a huge disservice to all of us, as both sexes are engrained with the instinct to take pleasure in sex, which we try to pull off with some friction and a quick male orgasm, but too often women’s pleasure is ignored or thought of as something that should just happen if she’s one of the “lucky ones”.
You will find dozens of books that claim “101 positions for better sex” or something like that. But reality dictates that there are really only 3 sex positions:
1. Missionary (Man on top of woman, front to front)
2. Doggystyle (Man behind woman, front to back)
3. Woman on top (woman on top of man, front to front)
Any other position is just a variation of these three. Think “reverse cowboy” and we can see that this is simply a mix of doggystyle and woman on top. Think about entering her from behind while your both laying on your sides… yeah that’s still doggystyle, you’re just laying different. I think you get the point.
These are not the distinctions that make for incredible sex, or giving women orgasms. With the right distinctions you can give a woman an orgasm in any position!
Don’t get me wrong, changing up the place or positions in which sex takes place is important for preventing routine. Routine will kill your sex life. However much more important distinctions to make about sex, especially if we want to make her orgasm, are things like:
What’s the urethral sponge, and how does it effect orgasm?
What’s the vaginal fornix, and how do you stimulate these muscles that contract during orgasm to give her an orgasm?
What’s the skenes gland and what role does it play in female ejaculation?
How do you stimulate the clitoris, the only human organ whose sole purpose is sexual pleasure?
How do you indirectly stimulate the head of the clitoris which can be too sensitive to touch directly?
How do you stimulate the shaft of the clitoris?
Why a woman will not be able to orgasm if she is not present, and how to bring her into the moment.
How over 50% of getting a woman to orgasm is mental, and how to lead her mind to orgasm.
Where do you aim the head of your penis to increase pleasure during intercourse?
What techniques work best for stimulating her clitoris during intercourse?
Why giving a woman an orgasm before sex will put her into orgasmic state making it ten times more likely for her to experience an orgasm during intercourse.
How to use words (dirty talk) to get a woman highly turned on.
Which exercises strengthen the PC muscle and make a woman’s orgasms more intense and how you can have her do them while your penis is inside of her.
How does the erectile tissue inside a woman’s vagina indicate when she’s about to squirt?
This is just the tip of the iceberg. I could keep this list going but I cover these distinctions and more in this guide.
Intelligence is a measure of the quantity and quality of distinctions you have in a given situation. For example Eskimos, and other arctic indigenous groups, have many different distinctions about snow. They need to know what type of snow is dangerous to walk on as well as what type of snow they can make shelters from, plus dozens of more distinctions regarding snow. These dozens of distinctions about snow allow them to survive in some of the harshest environments on the planet.
I’m guessing if you or I were dropped off in the arctic we wouldn’t last long without this “intelligence” about snow. I live in southern California, and my only distinctions about snow are that it’s “cold”, “white”, and “wet”! However with a guide I’m sure you and I could learn all the distinctions of snow and this new quantity of quality of distinctions (intelligence) will greatly increase our chance of not just surviving, but thriving.
By increasing our sensory acuity, or the number of distinctions we can make about the physical, mental and social factors that influence female orgasms, we greatly enhance our sexual intelligence which gives us more certainty that we can create our desired outcome… incredible full body female orgasms!
Tangling your bodies up and shooting for the moon blindly ignores all the distinctions that influence female orgasm, and makes the chance of both you and your partner exploding in ecstasy a long shot, or really just a blind shot in the dark.
Conscious ignorance has been a long standing practice when it come to female sexuality. Women were once considered asexual, with a complete lack of interest in sex, and told to just lie back and think of England. No wonder so many men and woman today still don’t even know women are capable of full body squirting vaginal orgasms!
Make no mistake, women are just as highly sexual as men. Women’s bodies are highly equipped to experience sexual pleasure!
What’s your sexual intelligence? Do you have the distinctions about female orgasms that can help your relationship not only survive, but thrive? Or are you just going to stick it in and shoot for the moon?
I lacked these distinctions and it was the demise of several great relationships. I’ve spent a great deal of time learning the distinctions that influence female orgasms. These distinctions are what I teach in the Female Orgasm Blueprint.
I hope these tools help you re-imagine your sex life, give you the intelligence to think far beyond sex positions, and help you create the fulfilling sex life you deserve!
This is by far the best post you have written. I love the intelligent manner of explaining such a beautiful act. I wish more men could know these things before approaching a woman that they care for. Life can be so beautiful. Thanks, Jason
Jason I really appreciate yo techniques, ,keep it up,,
Loved that. It was so beautifully written. Very intriguing and entertaining too. It’s fun when reading and learning are so sexy. Almost like a romance novel. I wish more people were open to sex talk. I uv sex. I think its the best thing u can get for free lol. And it’s so much better when both people are on the same page. It’s awesome just to be inside a woman, but if she’s not moving the way she’s supposed to, it’s almost not worth having sex at all. Notice I said “almost”. Lol Anyways, it just makes the sex better when u know she’s being satisfied or orgasming. It just makes u feel like a man!When she’s moaning and cumming and screaming ur name. it makes u feel like a King.
I’m loving your techniques dude. I have my fiancé squirting every time we make love . She even told me that I’m the only man thats made her squirt and she 46 yrs old.
karl freed says
The comments on position are very true, but it is Good to mix up a sex routine, for both partners enjoyment, to learn new or different things about each other. I like your commentary
it is open and honest, as opposed to others.
I had my girlfriend over for our two month anniversary last night and told her I was going to make her squirt. She didnt believe me… I used the tips and tricks that have been provided by you and made her have her first squirting orgasm. She said it felt like pee but I told her it wasn’t and that she just needed to let go. She fell in love with me even more then she already was. Thanks to the simple things I have learned from you. Thanks!
Ps i know this isn’t the right topic but I couldn’t find the other one on g spot orgasms.
Woooooooow Jason ,u are a real life safer.U have changed my love life completely.my first marriage ended in divorce because my husband and I did not really understand how to do it,now my new husband is giving it to the fullest,thanx a million times Jass.
Steven Bilston says
It’s an interesting story but you don’t really need websites like this,all the skills I learnt came from being curious and experimenting and having a large penis,sorry but I guess I was at the front of the queue and I figured I’d better learn to use my “gift”! and I have and girls love the feeling of being completely filled with cock
Jason , Cinnebar
This is really awesome and thus worth reading and sharing with friends
It is transforming my sex life.
Keep up with the good work that you are doing
wow! its amazing great stuff for married cupples
Great website. Very useful. One question, though. I often squirt without having an orgasm. How do I connect both things? Thanks a lot.
your blogs are great – i will continue to read those. it also makes comments from the female side possible – like the comment from Cinnebar – which was outstanding. I do admit Your videos are kind of distracting though – i would much prefer to read the information than watch you in your odd outfits – how about getting a haircut and wearing normal cloths …!?
Julius I am 56 eager for sex with my girlfriend 46 who is erotic and experienced. I realized that she experienced her first intense squirting by the G spot technique finger. I was impressed how such a woman that loved sex had not enjoyed the supreme feeling. Since then she lives with the aim to repeat it. However it seems that it doesn’t work every time like pressing a “button”. You are completely correct that the mystery of squirting is 50% in our brains. I will try your deep A spot. Anyway you brought in my sex life a mastering sensation which I lacked in my life. Keep up the superb work. We are all grateful!
im in my 40’s now…i hv never squirt ever…hope can hv a man who can do this to me……this program is really helpful…thanks jason
How are you doing today? If you are interested I’m ready to make you squirt guarantee.
Hi Jason , I really have learned a lot from the videos and text. My question is this: I’m 67 and I enjoy having oral sex done to me but I’ve never given. My new boyfriend likes it so how can I please him. Help !!!
First, get an item about the size of his penis and experience taking it in your mouth and fantasize that it is his penis, get comfortable with that feel. Next, when you go to experience it with him the first time, put a rubber on his penis and that way you won’t experience any surprises. Take it slow and your man may not demand you do i t bareback. But you may at some time get curious and want to do it bare back. Best of luck.
Hey Jason. I’m a 19 year old female and I’ve stumbled onto your website one day about a year ago and I learned something about my own anatomy when it comes to helping a female reach her full potential. I’m a lesbian and had never done anything with a female, as to having full blown sex with her until ironically after looking at some of the vids and diagrams you’ve put up later. She was like wow I’ve never even squirted and everything, and this was my 1st time! Lol. To see so many comments about people not knowing these things and how they’re thanking you all the time, I’m pretty great full that I stumbled onto this pretty young lol. And I also just read your stuff because I love science, and to me this is just very interesting. Thank you 🙂
I am a 33 yr old female still learning about my own sexuality. Thank you so much for your informative videos and blog! Thank you, thank you, thank you and I will be sure to pass your information on.
Joshua Eric Jose Ferreira says
I found the best position that works for me (figured it out last night actually), because it gets my wife to orgasm quickly and allows me to last longer, is where she lays on her stomach with a pillow under her hips, and if you get on top of her and penetrate downward, stimulating the g-spot firmly and directly, she will love you for it. Just be careful as this way of loving your woman/women can make her g-spot so sensitive that it actually becomes unbearable and sometimes even painful
But all in all its a good way to make her orgasm quickly and strongly…
P.S: this position will most likely, if you do it right, make your woman scream with pleasure and maybe even squirt if your lucky (just remember squirting is difficult because a woman needs to relax her pc muscle as she climaxes, which is quite a skill), so keep going and keep trying and maybe one day when she does it right and you do it RIGHT, she will shower you with her love… happy trails 😉
Amazing. I see a happy wife ahead. I have been away and for sure soon as I get home I will make my wife the centre of my life. Thanks jason
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Phinstard Duwa says
Jason this is incredible,where were you,look now people have been end up in divorcing,not trust to each other, creating multiple relationships in fear of break up long saving relations due to wealthy and children, the period they have been going through.So it’s like you are coming at the eleventh our,wow.But anyways it’s not too late i really enjoy your sessions keep the fire burning.
Bonnie Hurd says
Jason I think these videos are great but what do you do if your husband had dementia and ED? How does a woman giver herself the orgasm you talk about. I have been trying for over 7 months and can not seem to do it.
thanks jason i feel too strong then i was before we are having happiest days in our live
Hi Jason. I am 68 years old and very healthy with a very strong sex drive, however I suffer from ED. I get erections but they are not very hard, unlike up to about 5 years ago. It’s embarrassing, but I’ve tried Cialis, Viagra, Tri mix injections and have been to a man’s clinic without much success. I have used a prescription Pump which helps a lot, but it can be a bit painful. How significant is this ailment in my ability to satisfy a woman?
David criswell says
I’m in same boat can you give some info on our problem
Just eat her pussy the Jason way! What your crown jewels below can’t do, your mouth will for sure! Best of luck.
thanks dear nice knowledge of u amezing enjoy the life happy life thanks
The first time i saw your intro video every word you said was a soul desire that i had already been feeling dor a long time. The first time I had sex with my ex I stumbled apone her g spot but I wasn’t sure what it was all I knew was that it drove her crazy every time I touched it, after reading some of your post I can’t wait to get my hands dirty again 😉
I love everything I have read or viewed. Now just to convince hubby. Maybe after 46 years together and both of us being somewhat broken we can’t get it going.
I’m in my 70s. My partner is in her 30s. Using your teachings, especially the Deep Spot. Once she starts coming, the slightest movement of my fingers, sends her into Orgasm after Orgasm. I have to stop as she can’t. Otherwise, she would be to tired to make Lunch, She tells me no one has made her come like me. This proves age is not a problem anymore. Thanks again..
Ed W. says
Thanks for all the info it’s the best advice I ever had.just waiting for my wife to let go she’s trying but not yet but she says its going to happen soon she feels it rite there. The g spot is so big like a balloon .even she can’t believe it but still waiting.
sarah k says
Thanks. very educative for married couples
Marley lucianna seka says
Thanks Jason, your video really helped. Now my husband & i enjoy sex to the fullest..
jason u are amazing thanks you for everything u have done for us videos advices all great
Wow! that comment by cinnebar was a jewel – talk about a brilliant, experienced, step-by-step instruct to the next-level of-G-spot-mastery! Thanks-a-million, girl!
And ultra-thanks to you Jason; for if you were not putting out these wonderful blog-comments; we wouldn’t be getting ultra-important feed-back like that!
I can’t thank you enough for the work you are doing – it’s truly changing our sex-lives/pleasure!
Ndimwe a mdala!! I salute you and right now someone is crying for more as I am writing. You see I am actually posing so I can do one advise and come back, hmmm this is very nice, I will come back right now let me do it again hmm you hv introduced me to a 24 hour thing, non stop!!
I’m a woman (and an experienced one at that) and even I learn something from every one of your posts and videos. Thanks for your excellent work, Jason!
Jason you are Great
Donovan Doyley says
You are simply the best. Sorry i did not meet you before my sex life would have been the best. I really want to please my wife but i am lacking in confidence. With all of this I will be a great in bed. Thank you and i will be in touch
Cheers Jason dis is really very helpful!!!
Hey jason u r the man!!!!
Hey buddy without your helpfull video and articals i m like body with no leg sss buddy you change my sex life ………
Good to know all this information! I will buy the full package and take my time to read and learn. Yesterday I tryed grape seed oil…it was really cool!
I’m really glad that I have taken the time to find out more about this and it has opened my mind vastly and I know that I’m going to be way better with this stuff, I have been a quick learner in the bedroom so far but this… Will be the difference between night and day and I know my girlfriend is going to love my new found knowledge 🙂
EVERY man should read this…
I second that! I also think every woman should too. I have learnt stuff about MYSELF since I’ve been reading and watching Jason’s blog and videos. I have recently become single, I think I shall learn as much about myself as I can so that whoever may come along can be guided correctly OR I may even insist that they sign up to Jason before they even lay a finger on me haha. Awesome stuff, Jason…thanks for the knowledge!
Dr Ptakash says
vry vry useful & informative…
Thanks for the advice. My girl can’t get enough of me.
do u have tips for women as well. i need one with the best way to do ANAL sex and also for ORAL sex
thanks brother for the tips.
Love your posts, always fun to share these tips with the man.
Jason my wife and I have been together over 40 years and your instructions helped me remember how too really enjoy making love w her. We have fallen in love all over again. THANK YOU.
what every woman wants and what every man needs to know
this is wonderful, I used many of these techniques before but you put in them in very clear ways,
hey man thanks a lot for teaching a new may of love
so kind to you
man yo rocks
Jason, I love all your advice. As a woman I thank you for educating men.
Rhythm and Tempo. I haven’t seen you talk about this yet.
A lot of my women friends agree with me that a crucial factor for achieving orgasm is TRUST. TRUST that the beat/tempo/rhythm won’t let them down.
Men need to understand that their woman will let them know when they are in the right spot and when the beat or tempo is ‘just right’. She will say something – like “Just there” or “Don’t stop”. That means “JUST THERE” AND “DON’T STOP”!
When your woman is building to an orgasm she needs to know that she can TRUST that beat. She needs to know that she can move all her focus into the beat and let her fountain rise to the beat – get lost in the beat. If your hand gets tired, you can pause for a beat or two – BUT PICK UP THE SAME BEAT after that ‘pause’.
What happens is that the woman may be thrusting to that beat at first but – as she gets closer to coming her body will arch and reach – with no movement. DON’T STOP THE BEAT – DON’T CHANGE THE BEAT. She is trusting you to take over. You can make it firmer and may speed up incrementally – but don’t try and put in some clever ideas of your own at this stage.
She will also let you know when she peaks completely – and that is NOT when she is screaming and reaching and arching… continue until she goes into deeper breaths… then slow to a whisper of the same beat and let it die away slowly – the final phase of an orgasm is so exquisite that she won’t want to let the sensations go. She may shift herself to change the position of the spot you are on but that light pulsing is a beautiful thing as she comes slowly back to reality.
Hell yeah! Great point , that’s what’s missing . I couldn’t quite put my finger on it, oops, great stuff Cinnebar!!! 🙂
that’s the reality of my experience in words… very well said cinnebar.. 🙂 i follow that guidline all the time. my wife enjoys my being attentive…
enjoyed your comment Cinnebar — you are an outstanding writer — would like to hear more from you …
It is true and worth practicing over and over
Jason, you are great .
Enlightenning helpfull logic explanations to the most desired aspect of human behaviour .
thank’s a lot for your advice.
Jason I tried what you teach and it was successful, she enjoyed a lot. thanks
What I would give to have you sit down with my boyfriend and talk to him! I have learned lots as a female by watching your videos and reading your blogs,God knows how much he would learn.
wonderful…..hop u will post videos for this
My problem is that I can’t decide which woman I want. I get bored with the same body after awhile, once I get her to totally trust me and we’ve had some great sex. I don’t want her anymore and it is time to find some new meat. It’s much better than paying for a hooker.
Jay, you are a cad. There is ALWAYS more to learn about a woman and more to explore with her.
the fact that you are pointing your problem out tells me that there is hope for you. In a way you are quite typical for a male – coping with the urge of perpetual conquering. That may work for you for a while, but if you focus too much on the fresh meat factor, it also may prevent you from recognizing the wright girl, when she comes around. If you focus on her as a full person – her beauty inside and out, you will recognize her. it will be a person you not only will find attractive but you will be able to respect, trust and treasure her for her contributions to your relationship. This all may sound a bit washed-out. But i can promise you that once you make the commitment for a live-long relationship and you have the will and integrity to keep the commitment, your rewards later in life will be infinite. Once you start going into the later phase of your life and you look back you will find that your biggest accomplishment was – not wealth or career – it was the fact that you were given the chance to have a life-long relationship with a great woman that you were able to cherish, support and shape into the woman she is. At the same time the transformation and maturing you went through will be her merit. From my own experience i can tell you, after having been married to the same woman for going on fourty years, that to this day i still have my WOW-moments where i stop in my tracks and have to tell her that she is the most beautiful thing in the universe. And last but not least, i am just as crazy and attracted to her as a woman as i was fourty years ago …
Hope this helps – Erik
henry balfour says
You are so depressingly shallow, “Jay”. Just wank instead, OK, then the only person you will be taking advantage of is yourself.
Jason you really helped a whole man thanks for sharing all the experience you have gained.
Daniel Edwin says
Woaw, I’ve learnt and achieved more than a million dollar. Jason, thaks a lot. U have change my sex life for better. I appreciate.
Thanks alot for this.
thanks and plz send me some sample video
Jason,You are the Man! Thank you. All these years ive been getting it wrong but now im having the best sex ever all thanks to you.My Girlfriend wont leave me alone! Im re-born! again thank you Bruvver! best regards,Ian.
Hey Jason…Thank you so much for your articles regarding sex knowledge that help us a lot to solved sexuality issues. You really guide such a thing that never heard before. I like it and keep me informed.
hi..Jason..thanks for your program…what i could say is..ITS BETTER LATE THAN NEVER.. maybe age does not matter at all when it comes to orgasm…as being discussed here the variety of positions is not important but the quality of foreplay a partner could bring orgasm to his woman..i hope its not too late for a husband to know where the G spot and get to it to satisfies his wife..and not indulge to infidelity just to satisfy his needs and gets younger ladies..More power to you…and to all who made your program more successful and inspiring to both couples…
Thanks man. You made me good at bed.
hey man you have really helped me how to make love by making my wife satsiefied using all the techniques that i have learnt from you.keep it up
My husband and I have got the grapeseed oil, and I can’t wait to try everything you’ve taught us so far. You are amazing! G spot was always a mystery…..didn’t believe! What have I been missing out on all these years!! Most Women!!! Thanks Jason! FYG!
Jason; my wife and i would only have sex twice a week with our busy scedule. I tried your methoods and i works!
now we have sex almost every day, sometimes 3 times a day. i think i brought out the nypho out of her!!!! lol.
thanks man. i really needed this!
Hey Jason…Thank you so much for your articles regarding sex knowledge that help us a lot to solved sexuality issues. You really guide such a thing that never heard before. I like it and keep me informed.
Its amazing your all the articles / advices about sex especially the female ejaculation. I am a new reader of your topics even though i am excited. I am from India and every night I try all your techniques with my wife, its amazing, exciting and mind blowing. What a techniques you provides to all.!!!
I love it and need more techniques to have a good healthy sex life.
The information I’ve from your videos and all has worked very well for my wife and I
the only thing we really have an issue with is, that we hardly ever get enough time to really explore each other due to our children and my work schedule
we’ve been using or ive been your techniques and I get her almost to squirt and she wants me inside her well I know she’s being satisfied I am also I just want her to experiance multiple orgasms during sex. Well don’t want to take up your time so Thank you very much
the info it is great and we are greater together its just going to get better I know this for sure
I’ll get her more focused. Thanks again :
I have made her squirt before I just want her to have multiples like your explaining..!!!!! Peace brother!!!!!!
thanks jason for the clarifications and hope to have some stuff soonest
Me and my boyfriend are both 20yrs old and not very highly educated sexually. He is serving in the military and is gone for long periods of time I’m hoping to try out some of your techniques when he returns home next weekend! No man has ever made me orgasm, little to their knowledge, but I want to share that powerful moment with this man in particular! I’m excited to try out what you’ve shared! I’ll keep you updated!! Keep it coming;)
keep me informed
Am sure this truth will help so many
Its nice to hear
great great news for modern man
I like it and appreciate it
Can i order the CD packages to come to my home or i can only download online.
if i download online it will be possible to put it in the cd,
Jason Julius says
@JM I don’t offer the course on DVD’s, it’s only available in a digital format. When you purchase you have two options for viewing the videos. You can either download them to your computer (and yes, you can burn them to CD or DVD) or watch them online (streaming) via the private member portal. You also get lifetime access so you can download or watch online as many times as you wish.
I’m a woman. How can I tell my husband to get these techniques, maybe he’ll take it in a wrong way when I tell him.
Send me samples of your amazing videos
what can i say jason ,how to thank u .
u realy guide such a thing that never heard befor .i am from india.and common people here r very un aware about such this type of stuff.
as for me this is jst great Jason.,i like it and keep me informed thanx.
I just read your artical, being well above the average length and girth I have to be careful not to go head on to fast as it can hurt my partner rather than pleasure her sometimes. Thats how over the years I have had to developed skills of foreplay to make intercourse the most incredible experience for her. After reading many of your articles I would say you are correct in most all your information. Great job on getting it out.
Thnks jason ,it,s amazng now idiscover myself.
Thanks to You! I have never been pleased so much. I am 48 years old and I am going through menopause. Now my question is, now that he has found my G-Spot Orgasam How do I stop it when we are having sex, not that I want to but I need to, I also have been drinking Coconut Water and I can tell the difference.
jason id like to start out by saying your a genous when it comes to all of this and thanks for all of the advice so far. now to get to it, the biggest problem im having is that my wife says that she whants to have intercourse but when it comes time to it never happens. she says that shes not in the mood any more or that shes just not into sex any more. now my question is how could i help increase her sex drive so we would be able to have sex more then once a month?
i love your advice but i hvae a question if ive had an amazing time but i keep falling asleep afterward … how can i stay up afterwards??
Thanks for the information,it is educational.You really help a lot of people keep their relationships.
Jason, thanks for clearing up that we don’t need hundreds of positions! I have found as a couple who are older (50+) and overweight, that we both are able to best climax together when we lay on our sides, either facing each other or front-to-back. When ‘front-to-back’ the man can easily stimulate the woman’s clit while kissing her neck — I LOVE THAT. Our knees are too painful with arthritis to have one person on top, so we have found our sex much more satisfying by laying together kissing, fondling each other, and talking about what pleases us most (including oral pleasures). Thanks to you, and your instructional videos, our sex life has taken on an all new excitement and pleasure — especially much better than when we were younger! (Our sex time together sometimes includes giggling about the older days of fumbling around, compared to our fantastic time now.)
Jason:keep doing what you do for men out there that need info like this.
Great, this is just too good
Dear Sir,…I’m very glad to have this opportunity.Thank you very much for your advice on female ejaculation.I think it is very important for my life.May God bless you.
Hi Jason, This is the first site that I am encourged to write a coment. Your thinking regarding sex is very rational. I have faith and belief in all the knowledge that you provide. Thanks a lot.
Angela Felter says
Hey Jason…….thank-you so much for ur advice on female ejaculation!!!! Ur very thorough,and seem to be very passionate about helping ppl learn how to better their sex life. I know female ejaculation is real,but I have yet to experience it for myself,and cannot figure out y 🙁 !!!! Ur stuff is the only expert opinion I study,bc for me It’s like u read my mind, I say “oh I have a question I wanna ask” and BAM I find it on ur website!!!!! Thank-you so much for caring about ppl like me,and giving ur advice :o) ! Love Angela
It real. its all depend with sexual intelligence. Squirting is real and for my case it happens every other day we have sex. Its so amazing!!!!!!!!
matthew yebo says
Hey Jason thanks for those sex position,but man when i tried that of i a woman being on top it was so painful
Tnx jason , as for the 3 positions i do agree with you, that’s really great
I consider myself to be a geek about sex. Studied sex since I was 14, noticed that ‘G’ spot before encyclopedias dared print anything about it, discovered how to mix kamasutra with massage, etc. Yet the hardest part for me is to share this information in a way where I could then point my ‘learner’ in a direction where I could say, “This is where I’m coming from.”
That was a year ago. Now, I’m able to direct people that I meet online to jasonjulius.com and knowing for sure that if they found MY information interesting, they will find Jason’s information interesting. Jason, you’re the only one I’ve found who not only has a blueprint (which I have yet to get), but also a blog BESIDES a blueprint. Thanks a million for your words.
OMFG!!! Jason, you are a sex god! I always forward your pearls of wisdom to my husband and lets just say, we’re expecting our first baby as a result!!! I’m thinking we should name him after you! Keep up the good work!
very valuable and benfecial info
richard mccleave says
Dude all I gotta say is let’s hangout. U taught me so much I dnt know how to thank u. I know we all think about sex we all talk bout it, just most r afraid to ask the more important questions. Like am I doin this right ppl just jump right into it n assume tht they know what to do when really they dnt. I’m not ashamed to admit it. Yea I’ve always had confidence to lead my women n the bed room n let me tell u tht turns her on when I demonstrate dominance. But I only knew a little bit but now knowing how to get her to orgasm is giving me more confidence. But ill admit I dnt know it all n thts fine cuz I’m gonna learn more thanks to u. May not mean much man but u made a friend with me u seem like a layed back video game kinda guy. Keep up the teachings cuz I’m ready for more.
yah! U are right.
Its nt d variety of position bt d way u do.
Position r just a fantasy like show off.
Thank you for this well written educational “grounding” article
Thank you a million times over! May many many blessings be bestowed upon you.
I LOVE YOU!!
You are so right about the lack of knowledge. My Hubby, just recently gave me permission to experience sex with another man that had turned me on while out one night. It was terrible, really. He wanted to make me cum before he allowed himself to, but had no clue how to make me and just kept banging away in slightly different positions. At one point he said “This is starting to feel too much like work” I finally faked an orgasm to let him off the hook, as i could tell he was clueless and I didnt have a week to spend teaching him where and how to touch a woman. He said all the right things in his flirtations, but didint know how to carry it out.
Jason – Thanks for all your info, keeps me on my toes in the sack!!
Dan said, “I wish I had more time to get my mind around this more”.
This may be one of the reasons why men don’t have sexual intelligence. (Of course, it wasn’t provided/taught in school.)
They have other interests and things to do and learning about a womans’ sexuality is low on their priorities. Some women seem to have a similar stance.
Thanks, Julius..your teachings has helped many men.
Perhaps I’m biased . Your interest ,intelligence ,sensitivity and your business sense has impressed me . Man’s awareness and knowledge of women and our purpose in life is so very simple ; has been kept in the dark ages . I’ve appreciated your common sense approach. Most guys let loose once and go to sleep.There is a whole new world out there . I wish I had more time to get my mind around this more . dan
Go Jason! Thankyou for such common sense about positions, and for your wonderful instruction to men on how to truly appreciate the female body. You are providing a great service for all of us.
Excellent Article !! I have your course on ebook & reading this inspires me to go back through it to reabsorb the info even better. Thanks for impowering men with knowledge to satisfy their spouses & female lovers/friends…