Believe it or not there is an art to penetrating your woman and the way you thrust in and out of her pussy. It’s not all just about jackhammering away like you seen in porn. Sure, she may like it hard and fast at some points during sex, but chances are she’s going to enjoy it more if you vary your thrusts a bit.
The first thing to understand is that women love the first thrust. Every single woman I’ve ever been with will let out a big moan when she feels you enter her fully for the first time. Knowing this I always like to tease a bit and build up some anticipation before sliding in fully the first time. This usually involves rubbing your penis head on the inside and out of her pussy lips and rubbing the tip of your penis on her clitoris. Another thing I like to do is slide my penis up and down the outside of her vagina, but not penetrate her. Think of a hotdog sliding in and out of a bun. And you can always just rest the tip of your penis at the opening of her vagina while you kiss, etc. (This will drive her wild.)
There are two basic types of thrusting. The shallow thrust and the deep thrust. Shallow thrusting allows you to stimulate the opening of her vagina up to about an inch deep, which for many women is a very sensitive part of the vagina. Also, the opening of her vagina is often the tightest part, so shallow thrusts allow you to concentrate a great deal of stimulation on the head of your penis and just below, which feels awesome.
The deep thrust can be extremely pleasurable for the both of you. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of being fully inside your woman and hearing her moan with pleasure. Deep thrusting can allow you to aim for her G-spot and it can also allow you to position your pelvic bone on her clitoris or the area around her clitoris allowing her to rub up against you to trigger a clitoral orgasm. I explain a technique called the CAT here that works great for giving her a clitoral orgasm during penetration. One thing to note about deep thrusting is that if your woman’s vagina is particularly shallow or your penis is particularly long, it could be uncomfortable to go too deep too fast, so just keep that in mind.
Ultimately you’ll want to experiment with both deep and shallow thrusts with varying speeds. Not only will varying your thrusting style give her an incredible experience, but it can also help you last longer during sex. For example, one of my favorite moves is to give my woman five or so deep thrusts and then, on the sixth one, thrust deep and just leave my penis deep inside of her vagina for about a second or so, and if your woman is doing Kegel exercises, she can squeeze your penis with her vagina at the same time. Believe me this feels amazing and allows you to make sure you don’t overstimulate yourself too quickly. If you wanna learn all my tips for lasting longer during sex, check out my Extreme Stamina course here.
Like with any sexual techniques, the key is to keep an open line of communication with your partner and try lots of different thrusting styles, and in no time you’ll discover what drives her wild and gives you ultimate pleasure.
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Hey Jason, I must admit I don’t have yr course yet, but just from the Free Info I’ve seen in yr video’s and read on yr posts, I just started experimenting. My wife got very ill with MS 20 yrs ago & that ended sex in our marriage. When you don’t use yr ‘tools’ for a number of yrs., things stop working the way they used to. I also suffer from ED because of this, so a few yrs ago I started digging in and studying the woman’s body & how to use my fingers, thumb & tongue to give my future lady Powerful Orgasms. My wife passed away recently after a LONG battle with MS. Happy to say I recently reconnected with a gal I’ve known for 41 yrs. Went to highschool together. From the Free info I’ve learned from you Jason & just experimenting with different finger motions and thumb finger combinations, inside & outside the vagina, plus caressing my gals nipples, our first night we fooled around, she said she had more orgasms in 2 hours, than she ever did in her 3 marriages, which spanned over 25 yrs. As I said to her after, it’s so easy; it’s just a matter of experimenting & ‘listening’ to your lady. I find when I’m using a combo of for example, the clit, the G spot or A spot plus stimulating her nipples, it drives her wild & the bed gets very wet, lol. So for any guys who may read this, who suffer from ED, learn to use those fingers & thumb, and tongue. LOVE yr lady with your fingers & tongue, if the other ‘tools’ aren’t working..
I have had a hysterectomy — bladder lift & a rectocyciel . I am 64. Love having sex but am having a hard time having an orgasm. What can I do
Great info Jason….I use both shallow and deep strokes at various times and it works like a charm. I think one of the largest mistakes men make is they rush too much through each phase of sex as if there is a goal to be obtained in each phase. A patient shallow/deep technique can be an erotic “dance” that she will absolutely love and is nothing short of great fire play foreplay for her. The longer you hold her away from the deep stroke the more she’ll love it when you drop it on her. Something my lady and I love is a very deliberate circular grind bringing the penis all the way out to the outside of her vagina with an assertive but deliberate thrust all the way to the hilt and grinding your pelvis into her clit. Then slowly reverse directors. While you’re doing this a whisper of some sexy talk while stroking her hair can send her over. If she orgasms, encourage her to maintain eye contact while you mouth something sexy to her without actually saying it. Beyond hot…guaranteed rave reviews from her
Jay Ebanks says
I was reading your stroke Technique. I’ve done this before. I start at 10 deep strokes and 1 shallow strokes then it’s 9 deep strokes and 2 shallow strokes and so on till I reach 10 shallow strokes and 1deep stroke , this drives them insane. And it’s always good for a call back.
I have used several of your products and wanted to share something I learned on my own. I use to struggle with ED so I would do my best to master hand and mouth technics to get my woman off. I started using my thumb after extended oral stimulation and discovered I could make my lady squirt every single time. I would pull her to the edge of the bed while I stood next to her. Then I lifted her legs and rested them on my chest while I slip my right thump up to my palm tilting up toured her g spot. Then rappedly vibrate my hand back and forth. Boy was she surprised as was I. I no longer struggle with ED but continue to use this trick and it never fails. I also make sure to apply grapeseed oil. Just wanted to share. Good day.
Craig Schwartz says
Over the years you’ve taught me lots of interesting and useful tips re: lovemaking. We’re both in our 70’s and finding sex a delight. We’ve each lost our spouses via death. Now we’re “young and full of …..and vinegar again!
Thanks Jason, we both enjoy what you and Gabrielle have taught us.
Jason Julius says
That’s Awesome! Thanks for sharing.
This makes me all tingly inside just thinking about a man making love to me like this.
Interesting and good training material.
Aye…I wanna Fuck YOU! Haha! You definitely know wht your talking about
I read about a Chinese method where the male does 10 shallow/short thrusts followed by one deep thrust.
George Lewellen says
I have read about the woman’s Deep Spot (Anterior and Posterior fornix’s) as highly erotic zones in your Blue Print and other internet blogs. Mostly the discussions are about finger massaging. I do not recall ever hearing about stimulating those spots with the head of the penis. I seems to me, the penis head is the perfect tool for reaching and stimulation both for the forward thrust to put pressure on the posterior and raking forward and withdrawal on the Anterior. But you do not mention it in your current “thrusting” comments. What is it I am missing?
You always have the A plus game material Jason, like always I will definitely switch, diffeet styles of stroking. I can totally see like you say in female Orgasm blueprint anticipation is key. Do you ever suggest rotating strokes
Jason Julius says
Yes, rotating strokes is a good thing.
Awesome juicy information Jason! Thanks.
Some day when better finacial times I will indeed buy your online course.
I live in Maceió Brazil and love learning more and more about sexual intercourse. I belive I only really knew more than the average Joe at 36yo. Im 44 and having plenty of fun. Im single still.
I learnt a lot with the ebook I bought from you on how to eat puz*y like no other. Utterly useful. Its my bible for eating 😉
After foreplay, she wants it all as deep as possible, I like the short strokes, so we have a problem right here! I’m 63 and I have a slow ejaculation rate, so short strokes help me cum quicker but she wants it deep! Then after she cums several times I get the short strokes going and then I get to cum! I guess this is ok! It would be nice to cum together once in awhile, you know!
Grape seed oil is bad for vibrators/dildos that are rubber or latex ?
Jason Julius says
You’ll want to avoid using grape seed oil with anything that is rubber or latex based (toys, condoms, etc) as it could break it down. Use a water based lube like Astroglide instead.
Emmanuel Ntate says
Wow! These really works hey. Now my girlfriend want nothing from me but only sex.. Thank you Jason