–Reader Question–
Hi Jason,
Thank you, I like what I’m learning. I’d like
to ask your approach on what to do after she
has an orgasm; either clitoral or G-spot?
What does she expect? Would I continue like
nothing happened to help her with multiple
orgasms?
Do I need to go softer or harder? How do
I keep the mood for multiple orgasms?
Anthony
–My Response–
Anthony,
If you give her a clitoral orgasm you should
stop, give her a moment to experience the orgasm
(don’t touch her clit any more as it will be very
sensitive), then move to vaginal stimulation
while she is still very aroused to give her a
vaginal orgasm.
Don’t stop and cuddle, move right in for the
next orgasm. You will know when she has a
real vaginal orgasm, her vagina will squeeze
down on your hand and you will see it in her
body language.
Pull out and let her experience the orgasm.
Then immediately go back inside of her and do
exactly what you just did to give her the
previous orgasm.
Once she’s had one vaginal orgasm she will be
very sensitive and it shouldn’t take much to get
her to the next one.
There’s nothing to do to keep the mood, once
you give her a vaginal orgasm she should be
in an “orgasmic state” which means if you
continue to stimulate her you should be able
to give her another one. Remember she must
be very present in her mind in order to get
to the vaginal orgasm. Many women don’t know
what this is like so you may need to guide her
there.
Talk Soon,
Jason
tim says
Been married for 24yrs. and cannot get my wife to give me head, is there anything I can do or say to change her mind? Wondering!
Anna says
I’ve never had an orgasm during sex, NEVER and my hubby and I have always been ok with lazy sex. Well more me than him. Now, I want to try the g-spot orgasms with hubby but I’ve had a total hysterectomy (cervix, uterus, overies) 5 years ago. I’m totally embarassed to ask my doctor about this: do you think it Is still physically possible to have a g-spot orgasm and an a-spot orgasm after this surgery very invasive surgery?
john says
Yes,you will be able.Dont think you bo more woman after the surgery.You still have all your nerves to have an orgasm as any other women
Mary says
Hell ya! I had the same thing in 1990 and enjoy sex even more! No worries about getting pregnant or I’m on my period.
LaCasada says
Hi Anna, I am an RN, BSN and I feel what you have asked is overall a great question, one that I’ve been wondering myself these past few weeks. However, there really is no valid reason for not wanting to, nor being able to, discuss this issue with your Ob-Gyn – especially after 5 years. After all, his or her specialty training has been focused on a woman’s reproductive organs. When a woman has a hysterectomy, either partial or total like the type you had, the G-Spot is NOT affected . However, with the removal of the cervix, I don’t know if the A-spot of the vagina is inadvertently partially removed along with the surgical removal of the cervix. need to do research on that! If your doctor didn’t tell you this when explaining the surgery to you, also called “informed consent,” after the uterus along with its attached cervix are surgically removed, the top of the vagina, where the cervix used to be, is actually sewed closed. This is done for several reasons. One reason being, if a woman still has her ovaries & tubes she could experience an ectopic pregnancy. However, the primary reason for sewing up the vagina is to prevent the internal organs from prolapsing, or falling out through the vagina. As for G-spot orgasms, a hysterectomy does not affect the G-Spot area, nor the clitoris. So, the only thing that’s preventing a post- hysterectomy woman from experiencing G-spot, U-spot & clitoral orgasms is a lack of knowledge and her state of mind – not being fully present in the moment. PS: I DO hope your doctor has put you on very low dose hormone replacement therapy.
Phillip says
Hay Jason I wanted thank you for helping understand what I should with my feconsay after she has a clitoral orgasm and how to continue to give multiple orgasms.
Jen says
Thank you Jason !! My boyfriend and I have a wonderful sex life now!!!
bill says
is it better to have a bigger cock and I too want to no where the a spot is
Mike says
It is really close to the back wall of the vagina, just in front of the cervix. It can be hard to do because if you miss and hit the cervix it will cause her a lot of pain. You don’t need a huge cock. I’m just over seven and a half inches and can hit it from most positions. If you have a hard time because you are to big and hit the cervix, or if you can’t reach try changing positions to limit or maximize how deep you can go.
Kerry says
Ok so u talk a lot about the women but what about men? Any info on how to REALLY please a man? It would be a perfect combo….
Rhen says
I want to know more on this too!!! To be honest I have always been a tad “scared” or intimidated by a mans penis and always find myself being a little awkward when it comes to pleasuring him… Haha besides the awkward feeling I get, is there any tips on how to stimulate him better or anything like that?
Czar says
My girlfriend asked that question. What can and should she do to maximize her efforts toward her man. Who is the woman’s Jason. ?
Mthinay says
Thanx alot jason ma gf has now turned into a sex addict.when i hold she gets turned on even when we talk on the phone…….it like when she thinks about me she just get horny and crave for sex…..you ar a real “OUTIE” jason thanx again
Tim says
Hey Jason! I enjoy all your tips and know they work well. I have been able to make my wife squirt since the first time I touched her. We have been together for over 12 years! I can make her have an amazing clitoral orgasm but always wondered about her g spot orgasms. She will squirt with my fingers in her and also either licking or fingering her clit. When we have sex she loves to ride high and grind that clit into the base of my cock. So with this said I would believe she is more stimulated by her clit then internally. My question is when she squirts is this considered a g spot orgasm and is there a way to help her enjoy g spot orgasms more easily? I can make her squirt multiple multiple times which is the coolest thing in the world! Is this an orgasmic state? I would appreciate a little help as I really want to take my wife to a state that she wants to keep coming back for more or is so impressed with the pleasure she can’t get it out of her mind and thinks about it and wants it all day long!!
Thanks!
Tim
hubert hardeman says
My woman will continue to orgasm after the clit orgasm she will keep orgasm when I directly insert my penis and continues to orgasm for awhile!!!!it feels like she’s pulling the head of my penis!WOW. OMG
Alan says
Hi,
My wife was diagnosed with relapsing remitting MS, before the MS struck sex was great I was already able to make her squirt, as all the other girls since I was 18 unlike yourself I was greedy and kept the secret to myself.
Back to my point Since being diagnosed with MS my wife lost sensation within her vagina which killed our sex life, but with my own tricks and most of yours I not only can make her Orgasm Clitoral and Vaginal with fingers and ever so close to penetration (something that just never happened since being diagnosed with MS) but the biggest buzz is because of your lesson’s I’m now able to make her orgasm over and over again I’ve had her coming for an hour no word of a lie. From feeling unmanly to now feeling like I’m a god in the bedroom.
You’ve not just saved our sex life my you’ve also saved our marriage, thank you once again.
P.S from doing this where I get so into it I’m able if not most of the occasions climax myself 2/3 times without ejaculation and it’s the biggest rush ever.
tiberius says
Hi
Im 43 and my apetit for sex its the same i was in my 20 i wish my wife to be the same. Any advice??????
Joe says
Thank you for all your info. My gf has no less than 6 orgasms than I learned from Julius how to make her squirt. Now she wants sex twice daily. Love when she squirts than shakes so hard she cries with tears of joy. No one has ever given her these types of orgasms. Thank you Julius! It truly works wonderfully! Joe.
Alan says
Joe my ex-wife was like that lol it makes you feel good when you get them like that.
John says
Hi
How do I keep my penis hard through out the whole time I have sex?
Somehow it tends to soften up even when I’m have intercourse with my partner.
It’s so embrassing….plz help
Sam says
I have that same problem and it reals create a level of embarrassment. Can someone please help.
Darrell says
I have the same problem and sometimes I can’t even get it up. It is embarrassing and I’ve been using techiniques to try and improve it. Regardless, using techniques that Julius describes, I have made my woman squirt every time we’ve been together. And despite my failure of my hardware, my woman has placed me as her top lover (and she has had a few with harder and longer dicks and longer lasting erections than mine. So even if you are failing in that department, you can still keep your woman satisfied much more than just having a hard dick through just intercourse. Most women will experience these types of orgasms only through oral and manual masturbation, not regular intercourse.
William says
Hi I experience same problem olz give answer
Jen says
My husband does the same thing. If he focuses too much on me, he doesn’t stay hard. But it also works vice versa. If I’m focused solely on him, I’m not fully aroused either. It is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. When my husband has given me a mind blowing orgasm and he isn’t hard, I just help him get back and we continue on. It takes teamwork :).
christina says
i need to know how to squirt while fucking my boyfriend somehow ive only mastered squirting when he gives me oral…he wants me to do it other ways help me please im at a stand still with this…
STEVEN says
I will tell you that “HE” needs to help you squirt while he is fucking you. This is not something that you are likely to do without education for him and moreso communication between the both of you. Each woman has her own unique physiology and quirks. The more he is committed in understanding yours ,the better chance there is of achieving your sexual goals.
Max says
You can accomplish this in any position if your clitoris is being stimulated with yours or his fingers. My wife loves to do this from the doggy style position.
Bill Clitmonger says
I made a woman squirt once when I was just licking her clit. Have you ever done this?
Troy says
My fiancee and I really love trying out your advise I love the fact that she is willing to try anything and everything thank you very much I WILL be getting your books for sure! As far as making your cum taste better for her we’ve found that me drinking pineapple juice at least the day before works very well. She says it makes my cum taste a lot sweeter. And the girl that doesn’t like oral, she has to be in the mood and relaxed to try to enjoy it better. My girl loves to be blindfolded and simulated all over her body before you jump right in ,only when she’s not in the mood, othewise she can’t wait for it, sometimes she even begs and I’m happy to oblige. Good luck people and Jason don’t stop you are a genius…Troy
kushal says
there is any limit of age in squirting.mensus(monthly)roll while squirting.
Uneek says
Kushal – I’m 43 and just realized I can squirt and wanting to do it more…. Well at least you know up to 43 lol.
Deb says
And I’m turning 60 in 2 months and I just learned how wonderful it is to squirt. I’ve had the best sex in my life after turning 55- and I gotta tell you. It’s the man I’m with and it’s having, open mind and learning to completely surrender or go “let go”. Ladies – there’s a lot of life to look forward to.
Rona says
I just can’t get to the point of squirting, my husband has tried, I’ve tried but only a dribble. What are we doing wrong?
dawie says
Rona. What you can try is. Rondo butter, or durex play tinkle for lubricon. Wait for 3 days then let your husband look at your eyes for about 20 min, then start kissing you and do your thing and relax no stress and let your husband talk dirty to you while hes busy with your g spot. Enjoy!!!
Leslie Rowan says
I thought I know everything about sex. You have taught me so much more..
Happy Holidays,
Leslie
sam says
Hi,jason, every time i open my mail i learn new discovery from you.
please continue to literate me till I melt my self with the fantasy of female orgasim
sos
Jose says
what is the A- spot and where is it ?
ster says
Whatz up bro I want to know how to stop cumeing so fast
Jason Julius says
Check out my program Extreme Stamina – http://www.extremestamina.com/es-video/
– Jason
Jamie says
Here is one for you guys to try I do it all the time and it is amazing, If you are stimulating her orally IE clit tongue and mouth and she orgasms, immediately do this while she is in spasm or orgasm take your thumb and push down firmly on the hood and the clit not really hard but firm if you do this quickly one of two things will happen she will either have one long huge orgasm with many ropes or she will go into rapid fire mode and have a series of multiple orgasms, this sets up g spot orgasm perfectly also while the thumb is pressing down run your index from the perineum space between the anus and vagina to the urethra or the pee hole do not touch clit this will send her over the top and lead to the gspot. Just try it? what do you have to lose!
Joey says
Pls what do I do to last longer, I cum very fast each time I make love as soon as my girl is wet I come in less than 1min
wangadu339 says
Let me know how many types of woman orgasm are there and how to achieve those orgasms ??
Susan says
“…pull out and let her experience the orgasm”, I usually am thinking that you’re right on the money, but on this one, I disagree. Keep doing whatever you were doing to make her cum, don’t you dare stop. It makes me crazy when I start to cum and a guy switches doing whatever it was that got me there, or freezes and stops moving, it completely throws me off and ends up in a “ruined orgasm”, which is definitely NOT one of my kinks. It’s awful and will make me cry with sexual frustration, and not in a good way. Then I’m too sensitive to continue, but have had no release. Disastrous!
Susan says
Just to add, it’s one thing if my body pushes him out, but it’s another if he does it. It feels completely different if he just abandons me to cum on my own with no stimulation if my body didn’t push him out.
kim says
This has happened to me more than once…so I totally agree with you…its so true..I actually get pissed and then turned off by my lover. smh
Jess says
Absolute same. I don’t know about you but it makes me so angry and frustrated that I must appear completely crazy and even lash out sometimes……don’t do it lads.
Susanne says
Thanks, Susan, for sharing this! I totally agree! Yes, gentlemen, women get “blue balls” too! Frustrating!
Gigi says
A+++ Susan…You ARE SO RIGHT!!!
Uneek says
Thanks Susanne for making a note of “blue balls”. Men really don’t believe we get them. WOMEN BLUE BALLS too!
Gary says
Hi Susan I couldn’t agree with you more. I continue through the orgasm and use your body language when I can change, but definitely not in the moment. What I’ve experienced is a a large sigh and gasp And I continue for a short while less intense and then go right back into what I was doing and Jason hit it right on the head the next couple orgasm are quicker and stronger. Sounds as though that would work for you too.
Bill Clitmonger says
Have you ever squirted while having anal sex?
Elizabeth says
Thank you Susan!!! It is the same way for me. only sometimes I actually get angry! It is such a let down, and I have cried over it too! My current lover is the absolute best I have ever had! I get multiple orgasms one after the other and He loves it when I can have an orgasm from him “talking dirty” to me, I am 57 and he is 60 and we are like two twenty-five year old’s in bed!! We have both always said that we don’t want to grow up………….wonder if that mindset has anything to do with this? haha
secret says
I’m leaning towards thinking this is a good idea for him to ‘pull out and let her experience’. My husband is avoiding actual sex because I’m pushing him out when I do. I don’t mean to. He said he has a hard time keeping his fingers in there when I orgasm let alone his penis. This is exactly what we are going to try next, for him to pull out and let me finish and then go right back.
kirmac2@live.com says
Please please do NOT pull out/ stop what you are doing when we climax!! Men want to hold still when they cum but women DO NOT!! We want to keep a movin and a shakin!! Take her lead when she’s on top- watch what she does? The very best thing to do is ASK HER what she wants you to do!! Nothing is more sexy and more of a turn on than a man asking you what you would like to have done to you!!!!!! oh baby!!
New stuff says
Previous writer states his wife gets tired as she gives him head, sometimes taking over 20 minutes to cum. Me and my wife have recently found that if she stimulates the area just between the base of my penis and anis, usually with her bullet vibrator, as she sucks me off I cum very quickly and the orgasm is much more intense.
Lou says
all this info about the female orgasm is obviously fantastic, and im also now looking to return the favour for my boyfriend. can anyone recommend a really good, practical resource site/programme for improving the male orgasm? (and not one of the ones with loads of crap ‘tips’ that everyone knows already!)
Jason Julius says
There is a great course on how to give “proper” hand jobs called Stroke by Stroke by Michael Webb. You can check it out here: http://www.orgasmarts.com/webb/
-Jason
shattar says
you’re the boss jason.
philips says
thanks man for your help
Mick says
Thanks for you emails and videos. Ive been putting some of your techniques to use with great success. I was wondering if I can get some advice. My girl and I have just started dating and she is grossed out by cum. She’s now ok if I cum on her breasts but she said its never going anywhere near her face. What and is there a way to get her to be ok with cuming on her face and obviously at best in her mouth? It’s something I love that a girl does and I find myself disappointed she doesn’t. Your advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you
Lazir says
Man I’ve Been wid my girlfiend for 10 yrs.and she said dat when we make love and make her happy.but now I learnerd the new technic about giving her the G-spot she want dat atlist 3x b4 I go in.thank u Jason.
zombiegirl says
I personally love giving a bj to a man. When i feel in love i crave sucking him and swallowing. Its a very emotional submission for me
Tom says
You know how to please a man
Gigi says
I hear you…I could do it all day and do it all night….no kidding….
dawn says
i wonder why there isnt more guys out there that know about making a woman squirt
robert lee says
most of us men think we KNOW what you want until we COMMUNICATE then we find out what you LIKE AND WANT but then there is people like Jason who have study you and found out what your capable of(thank god). Most men dont know anything other that insert repeat climax thats it. But the few of us looking to better ourselves and life with our companions will search for other ways to please.
Jer says
Is there any way to get my wife to want to give BJs? I am really sorry to even ask this since you rarely have talked in your videos I’ve seen on the subject, but I am in a barren wasteland with her on this front, and she says it’s gross and doesn’t want to do it! I am no dofferbt than any other guy, and want what I want, please HELP!!!
Jason Julius says
Check out this video by Michael Fiore:
http://www.orgasmarts.com/bj/
Rebecca says
I find it difficault to enjoy personally a blow job, i never really did it because I really wanted to, I wish I didnt gag so much, if you can control that, your partner loves it..I try to push it to give him that sensation of I want to gag myself with his big…well.. .. I really tried to give him what he gives me, so the more I wanted to please him, he deserves that ….He kept telling me that I was really good and regaurdless of how I felt he loved my efforts, theres still thing I personally want to improve in for me…I dont dig to much porn but I’m not as aroused..He wanted me to see what he sees, so As I performed he got to video, his noises its what I enjoy and I want to earn full control… so we did a short video and he had me watch it while he returned the favor, I found it as a distraction but I enjoyed watching myself it was hot , Ive watched porn girls giving some amazing ..and the mans noises were there, but I am so glad that I let him do that, I would do it again, and after we watched the other camera, different angel, we watched it back, and boy was he ready to go, normally takes a while and I get sore, he dig it so much I want to give as much as I get….gotta ways to go, wow… i got a little ways to go, I gave him two, he has perfected me to at least 3- but have went up to 6, we are honest and we may screw everything else up in our lives, but we have let each other reach for the peak, we have given each other thing we didnt know was possible…good luck I have a week stomach but i try to push my comfort zone… but i can finish with my had and not have to get up to wash my hand before I gag…goal…I want to swallow not that it really does anything for my, but let me know that if it makes it that much more arotic, he enjoys watching me try, Ive puked not on him….but the effort…..hope I helped
Susanne says
I think the hardest part for women is overcoming the natural gag reflex. Learning to relax the throat and swallowing, while continuing to breathe takes practice. And done well, the cum will bypass your tastebuds. Ladies~practice this on your own…open your mouth, while swallowing and moving your tongue back and forth. Keep breathing deeper breathes than usual. Notice the tightness in your throat and relax it. Keep doing this until it feels more natural. Practice doing this while masturbating and suddenly you will associate the experience with orgasm and pleasure, instead of the panic of suffocating to death. Since you’ve been practicing, when those feelings of panic do come up while deep throating your guy, you will know what to do to relax that natural instinct. Extra bonus is you will exercise, and therefore, tighten up those muscles and firm up your neckline. 😉
Kristine says
My hubby has given me such a powerful orgasm (s) by stimulating my clit and G-spot at the same time! I usually ejaculate before the orgasm or after! It was like he injected me with some radioactive material and I was glowing into the next day! Thanx Jason for your advice about being “in the mind” !!
lasse says
Hey thanks! this was helping me alot! but i was just thinking, After the clit orgasm can i still have sex with her to give her the vaginal one ?
Jason Julius says
Yes you can…just be careful around the clit some women can become very sensitive after a clitoral orgasm.
-Jason Julius
Christian says
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marcell says
thnks Jason my girl see me as stud so far and i am not stoping, keep doing what u r doing
Robert says
Jason…I’m really wanting for my wife to keep my cum in her mouth or better yet, swallow, when she gives my blow jobs. She says it taste weird! How or what can I do to make this better for both of us? Thanks!!
Rebecca says
its not the taste for me, its the texture..runny fine, the goo that clings….trying to find away to be alright with it, the effort is appreciated…I’ve used a rubber, cause i wanted to finish him. still trying still looking for a solution.
Jess says
I was exactly the same as you, even pre cum made me slightly sick. This all changed up until just the other day. My man has been on a health and fitness routine recently and so has been drinking a tonne of water. I tell you, I don’t know what possessed me to let him cum in my mouth that time, but it was completely different, I have never been able to stand it and this time it didn’t taste of anything. In terms of texture I try to keep it off of my tongue and then go and spit it somewhere and the water seems to aid that as well.
So, water is the key I reckon : )
Scooter says
Don’t eat spicy stuff (garlic, onion). Make sure to drink lots of water… But just be happy she does it. Some of us don’t get them anymore, or never did… My wife might go down on me for foreplay, and most of the time that’s all I want. BUT, sometimes it would be nice to get one to the point of cumming. NOT IN HER MOUTH, that’s awesome, but hasn’t happened for many years.. She used to get frustrated because it would take me a long time to orgasm.. But, now, that I get one, only once a year for foreplay for 1-2 minutes, I appricate them more and feels so much better that I don’t need a 20 minute blowjob to CUM… Appricate Her, Tell her Thank-You, and give back……!! ,;’)~*°•
Cinnebar says
Tell her to keep your cock deep in the back of her throat as you come and, as she gently and slowly slides your cock out of her mouth, she swallows. She won’t taste it at all – it just leaves a slight tingling sensation at the back of the throat, which is soon gone….
cumsucker says
I personally Love to suck till he has his orgasim, nothing like me having control and listening to him to tell me how to suck it and then his heavy breathing and noisy turns me on even more, then Im so excited I dont even think about the taste, I just suck and swallow.Its your job to help out, He stimulates me wth a litt vibrator while I suck…
Tom says
Wow, nice, you could make a man jealous not being able to get that, I like your attitude.
Gigi says
It is the taste….and the smell!!!!
Guys…You are what you eat!!…And drink!!!! OMG!
Watch out for this…There are some foods and drinks that can make sperm do rancid, that the woman will puke at just the smell of it…And other foods which cure this…
Actually…smell it and taste it yourselves…If you can’t stand it…Then, why should she?…Does that make any sense?..
If you don’t want her spitting it into your own mouth after ward…then I guess we have found the answer, haven’t we?…Test yourself…and keep a log of how you smell and taste as related to your diet…Pay close attention to all the details…Usually, the more vegetarian you are, the better you taste. And likewise, the more junk food you eat, the worse you will probably taste…
Just like a woman has to do, to monitor for yeast infections….She has to do this daily…to catch them early…You should also be monitoring what it is that makes your sperm smell and taste rancid…And when it is bad…It ia unbelievably BAD!!!!!…Plus, you need to release often…to keep it self-cleaning…No kidding…Just like your bowel and everything else on your body…needs to naturally flush…often!!!!!….Your mouth, your colon, your throat,,,,your skin…etc…all needs to be constantly flushing. This starts really, with diet, water, exercise and liver maintenance.
Kyla says
Jason… YOU should just make a porno and we can all watch it and learn…. Thanks
tman says
U are on point and i support that notion holistically.
benno says
jason…pls can write something on pre mature ejeculation???…..cuz some of us need serious help…..
Jason Julius says
Check this video out for help with premature ejaculation:
http://www.extremestamina.com/es-video/
anwah says
to skin [Jason]…………………….dude hats off to u man, you are a real OUTIE {here in Africa we use this term OUTIE instead off gentlemen}
chris says
what do i do to get a woman to want to give a blow job, she will but she has to be in the mood and sometimes it takes months or a year what do i do ?
Umm... says
@jasonjulius: thanks a lot, it helps knowing what to do instead of having to embarrassingly have her teach me what she herself didn’t know…
@skin: you won’t make out until you’re married? Is she a monster you’re afraid of? I mean seriously, asking out isn’t wrong at all! I’d bet like 90% or higher of people who date make out at some point before they’re married, since most don’t make it to marriage, so take it while you can so you’re not the awkward couple that doesn’t know what they’re doing at the altar embarrassing themselves! Take it from a guy who say his best friend do this… Not a good sight lol
Man says
Hi! my Girlfriend doesn’t like me licking her. How do i get her into it?
And what can I do to last longer?
Ashton says
Sorry I ment to say “How do you” not “Who do you”
Ashton says
Who do you get your girlfriend to talk to you about getting her to get the orgasm. Cause I want to get her to the state of orgasm but I can’t buy the videos and I don’t know how to talk with her about it. Please write back.
Thanks, Ashton
skin says
I have not really had intercourse before but I have had some outercourse and I am really learning a lot from your stuff. I am yet to make her come since we don’t really want to make out till we get married.
Thanks Jason
Caren says
Hi Jason
I love the info you share with us its the bomb
I’ve tried the G-spot technique with my husband and even though i got clitoral orgasms i never seem to get a G-spot orgasm but it makes penetration much more pleasurable for me. I tried it on myself and really found the G-spot expanding and that sweetness which was sooo sweet but never get there even though i used a lot of lub.. What i experience during this is too sweet to not go all the way so is there any special tips you can offer please i am desperate for help!!
Flamingo says
I’m also interested to learn more. I’ve never had a g-spot orgasm and I really want to so I’m experimenting alone. I never know what the build up should feel like so I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing or not. I have no problem reaching clitoral orgasms but I have no success with the g-spot at all 🙁 With the clitoris it’s easy to know I’m doing the right thing as it feels good but I just have no idea with the g-spot at all.
Dada Lee says
how longwill it take for her to get G spot orgasm
Anthony says
Hi Jason, very interesting sexual info. Can you please send me a link to your first demonstration of the vaginal orgasm with come here finger motion. I would like my girlfriend to see it. I seem to have deleted it from my mail.
Thanks Bro.
Anthony
Leandra says
Hi Anthony,
I think you can only get the link to the video once you’ve activated your mailbox to receive Jason’s updates on the main site (.http://www.orgasmarts.com/)
Here’s the link in any case (don’t think it will work though):
http://www.orgasmarts.com/gspot-video/
If your wife wants so see it (if the link does not work) she has to subscribe to his (incredibly enlightening) mail blogs…
I haven’t regretted it for a moment!
As a curious, conservative, mid 40’s lady with an active libido, I am learning DAILY.
Jason – please publish more videos/blogs on female self-pleasure?
The men to women ratio in South Africa is 1 to 18 (last time I checked) 😉
Yanina says
Me and my boy friend come alot. But after the first or second time he comes he’s to tired to keep going while i don’t want to stop. Is there anything he can take that will keep him from getting tired?
Tresey says
I can have a clitoral orgasms all the time…I can feel myself getting warmed up to a vaginal oragasm but it neva happens..is there any that I can do to help myself reach that state!!??
Amanda anorgasmic says
My sexual life sucks! I never had an orgasm. My husband is extraordinary good doing everything but sex. I Love him with all my hart and I only wish I could enjoy sex as much as he does.
I’ll subscribe him to Jason’s blogs so we will improve our sexual life (hopefully).
garfield stewart says
she fan her pussy when she gets a G-spot stimulation
julius vincent says
thanks jason julius!
Paquito Advincula says
Thank you, for your teaching about clitoral and G-spot A spot I learn alot from you, specially the video you shown, I am from the Phillippines, Manila
joelle says
I dunno why female sexuality and sex generally are still so taboo in our century and I’d like to thank you to bring us back to what Nature has given us to play with and that seems to be forgotten through time and close-minded education. I’ve been experiencing orgasm at 53 (!) because I was fed up not knowing what it was but the way to get there was hard, as I wasn’t experiencing orgasm on my own either…so I’ve been looking for books, information or whatever until I found Tristan Toarmino and then after your method through a porno site (where is the main information available!) and then, miracle, all was said in black and white and there was even a method available -and that was saying about all what I was feeling deep inside me, like the several forms of orgasms,… and so much more and in details, with a real teaching gift.
SO THANK YOU, YOU’RE A REAL PUSSY GURU
Tommy Kakunglu says
I’ve been doing it wrong for the past 20 years of our marriage by thinking the clitorial system was the best! After watching your “G” spot tutorials,I became a new sex creature. I did not wait for the usual bed time that nite. I led her into the bedroom immediately after dinner leaving the dishes unwashed. We started with the usual clitorial stimulation and she started mourns without knowing what was in store for her! When, I inserted the first finger, she did’nt know what was coming. My finger had never been so deep inside of her. When I finally found it and pressed the g spot, she let out a gasp. When I pressed it again, she let out a “meow.” When I saw that she was liking it I started pumping it like crazy. This sent her into a frenzy. In her thrashing, she actually kicked the shits off the bed. At this time, she was screaming like she had never done before in our 20 years of marriage! I was also enjoying it so much that I didn’t see it coming! Without any warning, she let out a scream which still rings in my head up to now and then the unexpected happened! Some invisible force pushed my finger out of her vagina and then the dam broke. There was water everywhere! It gushed out of her like a fountain! As I looked on in awe, she clenched her fists and went limp allover. I thought I had killed her and when she came to, I saw the changed look on her face. She was a brand new sex machine. From that day, we are really enjoying our sex.
Thanx Jason, you a real fuckmonster!
Joeseph Far says
Hi Jason, i have had great success with some of your techniques, at the begining she had normal orgasms, clitoral and vaginal. then every week she seemed to ‘change’ inside. i could feel it…and every week since she has gone on to new levels of pleasure. and i dont have to work nearly as hard anymore. i have always told her not to ‘try’ to come. but to just relax and enjoy it and see where it takes her. she took the advice and now, she has multiple orgasms that so far are at 13 in a single sitting. i was tempted to go have some tea while she enjoyed herself over and over lol. but this week she changed inside again and instead of getting wet she got more ‘sticky?’ thats the only way i can discribe it….more friction…also she didnt squeeze me as she normaly did…she used to actualy push me out it was that powerful. i also noted that she more or less ‘opens up’ and that when she comes she screams and has a really sexy smile on her face and i can hear her laugh…i love the look on her face. the whole orgasm seems to be quick lived but she scores it off the chart. when i try again i hardly have to work at all and she comes the very same way…she also says her hands clamp up….if she holds the bed posts when she comes she cant let go for around 5 mins lol….omg i so love her. anyway the reason for this email is this….she sits on top of me and moves only like she can, wow, and i came after about 5 mins. then when i recovered she did it again and i found that i came without the fluids, i came again and again 5 times and stayed hard between all of them…they were very intense ….she was very happy that she brought me to this state. so am i lol. we seem to be in perfect tune with each other….loving her as i do may have something to do with it. so Jason im lost for an explanation as to what has happened to me…5 times feeling like i had 5 orgasms and staying hard with no ejaculations except for the first one. can you shed some light on this please…..sorry for the long message but im just so happy that i wanted to share whats been happening in my sex life since i have listened to you. keep it up Jason, ahem, i dont mean that literaly lol
Col says
My wife has an orgasm every time we have sex. Thanks to your info they are great orgasms too. But no matter what I try, I can’t give her multiple orgasms. Once she has had one, she can’t have another. I’ve tried clitoral then trying for the G Spot or A Spot but once she has had one, she just can’t get that aroused again. Any tips? Or are some woman just not capable of it? Thanks Jason
G-spotter says
My fiancé and I have very fast sex do to me having short time till orgasim however were fine with it because I’m great with my hands. I always give her a orgasim that makes up for it however I’ve been try that g spot one and I’ve done everything you have tought or wrote about do the come here motion with the finger and even when she’s wet she says it starts to feel rough me doing the come here motion. She likes it till it gets rough feeling so I go for the clit and it always works. How do you make it so it’s always the come here motion with the finger on her g spot to make it not so routine? As you’ve said it takes along time to get her to orgasim with this g spot motion. We still have not reached it but still trying. Thanks bro.
SRI says
To Jason
simply superb,thanks
Andrew says
Do you have any mthods to enlarge your penis
miloslav says
Jason jor easili tehnics are incredible when try those litlle things,she just blow away from this world :D.
aa says
Fantastic information your information has helped me to get ride of my limiting beliefs
Thank you
JGJ says
Jason, I am 47 y/0 woman. Married for 20 to the same man. He has been the only man in my life. I have always enjoyed sex in our relationship. I would like for him to be more “open” to explore the female body. My orgasms are usually different from the previous one. I have learned to do Kegel exercises and it has improved the muscle tone of my sphincter and he says he can feel it. There are times when he cannot penetrate unless guided and I wonder if he is having trouble keeping the erection. But most importantly, I want to introduce him to your videos and information, yet I don’t want to put him off or send the message that he is not good in bed. Just the opposite, he knows when I am not yet satisfied and is able to control himself in order to prolong intercourse. So, help me to introduce your program. How to approach the matter to a very proud, well educated “babyboomer” man from the South?
keegan says
thanks alot u’ve really changed my life!!!!!!!!!!! u’ll be hearing more from me
muko charles says
Hi, is it possible to realise that she enjoyed the way you wanted? cause at times ladies fear to mention about how they feel.
Otherwise i personally have got it all right, good job
teddy says
someone asked how many “Os” and lady can have?? My fiance had 12 one day… two in a gravel pit parking lot, 7 in 21 minutes driving home (really, she did – with my fingers), and three in our bed at home… finally closed the day with a mighty one for me… what a fantastic day.
Nigel says
Jason,
I wanted to know if it were at all possible to talk my woman through a vaginal orgasm (G-Spot).
when am not close to her. In other words, can she attain a vaginal orgasm on her own like a clitoral orgasm.
Nigel
Maurice Musadaidzwa says
hi jason, jus wanted to ask how can you give her a vaginal orgasm using your penis or hand ?? and can u explain wat a vaginal orgasm is and differentiate it from a clitoral orgasm..
thank you
Happy G-ma says
Hi Jason,
I saw a gentleman mention that his wife is menopasal & has all but cut him off. I myself was menopausal when I became involved with a man who had studied your wonderful amazing technique.
I became multi-orgasmic for the 1st time in my life!! I have 3 suggestions for this man.
1. I discovered a wonderful herbal remedy called ‘Steel Libido’ that seemed to help me become aroused more easily & made my Orgasms more intense.
2. Use lots of lube.
3. Study & master Jason’s techniques! This is no bullshit!! What my man has learned from Jason Julius is phenomenal life changing stuff & I am eternally grateful!!! Believe me, your wife will be too!!!
Lallie says
I TOTALLY agree with you…
Jason – don’t stop publishing your amazing info!
bigpup says
this is some great stuff jason, your tips have helped me alot
g volp says
your info. is phenomial unfortunitly my wife is in menapause and has all but cut me off. these tricks i am going to try and hope she will want it more than anything else THANKS !!!!!!!!!!!
GP
Code says
I’ve been using some of the tips you give and they are working my girlfriend enjoys when I finger her G spot and perform oral at the same time but i’m yet to make her have a G spot orgasm, Her vagina is more sensative then alot of girls i’ve been with and it often hurts her when we have sex. She says it feels alot better now that I know where the G spot is but i’m still just giving her clitoral orgasms. Any tips on good sex posissions for her comfort?
Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge, it’s helped me a great deal so far 🙂
jasonjulius says
@Code Make sure you are using plenty of lube and that your nails are properly trimmed. If the pain is to much or continues for her she should definitely mention something to her doctor because there are certain medial conditions that can cause “painful sex”. (which they have treatments for)
-Jason Julius
RJ says
Jason, I have never in my life experienced sex the way I am now. I used to think I was pretty good, now I know I am. And this is with my wife of 11 years! Case in point…last week, while on the road in a hotel, she ripped the headboard off the wall! Amazing. All I can say is THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU. If she knew (it’s our little secret), she would thank you too.
Jet Jaguar says
So are clitoral, A spot and G spot the only types of female orgasms? Which ones should you attempt to give first?
also: how important is fingering? Should you always finger your partner before intercourse or oral sex?
Thnaks in advance
messi says
thanks jason
Jay says
Hi Jason I am loving the pointers your giving me. ever since I subscribed to getting the emails you send out I have learned A LOT!!! I have always loved to see a woman squirt when she has an orgasm but never got to experience it in real life. I’m still working on it but my girlfriend just cant seem to have a real squirting orgasm. I’ve tried the G spot and she loves it greatly and tells me she does but she just seems to have a very powerful vaginal orgasm. any Ideas????
ash says
nice one
chintz says
THANKS JASON… U R GREAT…
wenslous says
my wife asked me where i got the idea. i tell you she is enjoying
Ndinah says
Im really enjoyng ths,keep updating.
kahuku22 says
I stopped painting the fence….and used some hand techniques learned, and was quite amazed at her reaction. She actually said the words,,,,”oh my god, you really found what i like” Which means i was doing it all wrong before and she was just being polite waiting for me to stop!! now i am doing it the “right way” and now she is asking for it…Thank you
andrew says
You know what!U just made it all for me chicks just flock me after their first experience with me.I already give them multiple ones.One just told me she’d run mad.
Janson U rock
Koda says
Hi Jason, I have never had an orgasm during sex but can have multiple orgasms by myself using a vibrater. Now I am in a new relationship not sure what to do or how to explain to him how hard it is for me to have an orgasm. Any ideas?
LaCasada says
9/26/17
Hi Koda, Im an RN, Bs, & you basically answered your own question.. the key to any successful relationship is open, honest communication. Tell your new partner that you’ve never had an orgasm during sex & and inform him that this is quite common for women of all ages. Then share with him how you Do have orgasms, what type of stimulation induces orgasms in your body. It is your body and it is up to you to teach him about it & tell him what you like & what you prefer. Of course, it goes without saying that for the best communication between the two of you, you really need to Introduce him to Jason’s website & videos. Men do have frail egos, but if he really cares for you he will be interested in learning how to please you & how to show respect to your body. He should be eager to learn what YOU want done with & to your body & ehat makes you cum. If he protests at the mention of watching Jason’s videos, or is indignant that you would even suggest something like that, then my guess is that he may not be worth your time & trouble. Look elsewhere for somebody who’s more mature, more grown up & is eager to learn about a woman’s body & how to have an over-the-top sex/intimate life at any age. We humans are never too old to learn anything! Education is a life-long process.
jay d says
What do you mean by “being present in her mind for g-spot orgasm/ guiding her there”?… And does that automatically make her splash?
Abinet says
I want to Tank You Dear!!!!!!
Abinet says
Wow U R best
Akkottai says
I normally give her clitoral orgasm; after this, she does not allow me to give her one more as she says that it is unbearable. In that case kindly tell me how to give her vaginal orgasm which she has never experienced at all. Kindly advise.
Jason Julius says
@Akkottai After a clitoral orgasm go in for the G Spot or the A Spot
Paul says
HOW COULD I DO THIS IF MY WIFE ONLY WANTS ME TO FUCK HER? SHE DOESNT REALLY WANT TO HAVE FOREPLAY, BUT I KNOW SHE LOVES WHEN I GO DOWN ON HER BUT SHE DOESNT LIKE CUMMING WHEN IM NOT INSIDE HER. SO HOW CAN I STILL MAKE HER HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASMS?
simon says
great stuff, Jason! thanks a lot.
After she had 2 orgasms in a row I usually… how to say… fuck her and after she had her third one I usually stop to stimulate her other than caressing her skin… I’m wondering… how many orgasms is a woman usually capable of to experience? should I wait with fucking her and give her more orgasms by using my hands?
Jason, I cannot express how thankful I am for you teaching us this stuff. For me the most satisfying thing in sex is satisfying her and I could never do this the way I do without the things I learned from you! 🙂
simon
Jason Julius says
@simon There is no limit to the number of orgasms a woman can have…in a lot of cases once you give her orgasms manually (by hand) she’ll have an easier time having orgasms during intercourse.
Jack says
To : Jason,
Since I started reading your information, I now have four girfriends. I think that they enjoy sex more today than they ever have.
Thanks again, Jack
Mr. Dee says
Thanks!