The ability for a woman to have an orgasm as
she ages depends on many things, including
psychological factors and hormones.
There have been some studies on aging and sexual
behavior that have found both men and women show
a “general” decline of sexual function starting
in their thirties and forties, but still many
people have orgasms well into their nineties!
Often times the decrease in sexual activity with
old age can be directly related to the loss of
their lifelong sexual partner due to death or
illness as opposed to just a loss of wanting
to have sex or the inability to physically have
an orgasm.
In fact there have been many studies that show,
for women, the ability to become sexually excited
and have an orgasm remains and actually can increase
as they age.
Physically, hormones have the greatest impact, and
the reason women in their forties (and older) may
feel more sexually driven is because of increased
testosterone levels. Testosterone is usually thought
of as a male only hormone, but women actually produce
it from puberty on.
The testosterone can have many different effects one
of which is increased sexual desire. However
testosterone is very powerful, so women produce
the sex hormone-binding globulin or SHBG, which
soaks up much of the testosterone to help keep it’s
effects under control.
The levels of SHBG are determined by estrogen and
as women age and approach menopause, their estrogen
levels fall which results in less SHBG, less SHBG
means more testosterone, more testosterone results
in an increase in sexual desire.
Another possible reason for an increase in sexual
desire as women age is the female hormone, oxytocin.
Oxytocin is the hormone that helps to advance the
bond a woman feels with her partner. The more sex
a woman has the more oxytocin she’ll produce and
the closer she feels to her partner and thus wants
to have even more sex.
Other psychological factors that can play a role
in a woman’s increase in sexual desire are, she
may feel less worried about becoming pregnant then
she did in her younger years. Also as women age
they tend to become more comfortable with their
bodies and have a “healthier” outlook on sex.
All this can have a positive impact on their sex life.
One thing women can do as they age to keep their
bodies in tip top sexual shape is to practice Kegel
exercises. Kegel exercises are designed to strengthen
the pelvic floor. Things like natural child birth
can greatly weaken the pelvic floor muscles, keeping
up on Kegel exercises will tighten up those muscles
and make sex much more pleasurable.
It’s important to note that there are some cases that
when older women have sexual problems, some of the
reasons are related to decreases in the secretion of
the sex steroids estrogen and androgen. Many of these
conditions can be easily corrected with the right
treatments.
For example vaginal dryness and a condition known as
dyspareunia (painful intercourse) are due to low levels
of estrogen which can easily be corrected by vaginal
estrogen therapy.
It’s my belief that healthy women of any age can have
orgasms all throughout their lives. Of course there
are certain physical and psychological techniques you
need to know that will greatly increase your chances
of being able to please her for years to come. I’m excited
to teach you all of these techniques in the Female Orgasm
Blueprint.
If you haven’t had a chance to check out The Female Orgasm
Blueprint yet, what are you waiting for?
You can read all about it HERE
Talk Soon,
Jason
Star says
Thank you sir J. I am a young man, añd I really enjoyed and got you well in your demonstration video last year(Dec/Nov.) .Could we get.more of.these.demonstrational videos on clitoral,vaginal,”teasing ” , A-spot cum G-spot stimulations oof making her squirt?
Thank your sir.Julius(would liken yoy to renowned Julius Caesar, haha) .
Star says
Thank you sir J. But could we please get more demonstrational videos of clitor,vaginal,A-spot, G-spot etc stimulation methods of making them squirt ,seeing not all of us may readily get the blueprint instantly? I really enjoyed and understood your one demonstration video last year.
Thanks sir Jasin Julius
Mack says
Still can not found the g spot . What do it fell with your hand inside help
Gary says
I purchased the blue print about two years ago, It has been one of the most phenomenal video’s I have ever purchased. My computer crashed so I was only able to view about 4 modules. I recently re- downloaded the entire program and viewed it in its entirety. Now to get to the meat of the response.
I am 63 years old and recently became acquainted with a an attractive 59 year old female. The amazing thing about this female was that she had never allowed anyone to do extensive ,foreplay or perform oral sex on her. in her lifetime. Using the techniques that I found in the Blueprint, she has turned into a nymphomaniac, We have been together for more than 3 months and we have engaged in sexual activity in excess of 90 times. She consistently has squirting orgasms which causes an inordinate amount of laundry to be performed. The only problem I seem to have is after multiple squirting orgasms, she seems to run out of massive amounts of excretion. I have been considerate and give her as much as a 3 day break one time, so she could replenish her fluids. It seemed to work, should I continue to give her a couple of days ever so often to replenish her fluids? We make love sometimes as much as 3 or 4 times a day. She can’t seem to get enough. Should I lesson the amount of times? Is there some type of supplement or vitamin that will help her to continue to have such massive squirting orgasms? Please respond.
I’m 63 and she is 59, we have more sex than most teenagers, I think this answers the question about whether older citizens can have great sex.
Kat says
Oh Jason! I love everything you post. I am a 55 year old elms that thoroughly enjoys all aspects of sexual pleasuring. I am married but my husband has a severe ED problem so I have going on line to meet guys for that reason.
I have to admit in my profile, I tell them that JASON JULIUS is a “must” follow as far as I go.
I think I have been squirting for years and just didn’t realize it. In fact, I would kinda freak a little thinking I was peeing!
Thanks for everything. Hey, if you’re every in Jersey, give me a call!
Kat
Mark Kocher says
I would love to meet up but I live to far from you . I am from Potter County , PA. I love sex, but cant get girlfriend to have sex any more.
Vincent Dolce says
Jason,
I am impressed with your knowledge of hormones.
It is such an essential part of our being. I wanted you
To know that one of the biggest problem with women
In the 30-50 year age range is lack of testosterone
They are calling it the secret hormone. The average
Medical doctor is not even thing about that.
Keep up the good work
Vincent
Kathryn says
I am a 61 year young woman. My husband passed away over 8 years ago. I just recently met someone, I have no problem with getting very well lubricated but even with that intercourse caused bleeding. Went to the Doctor and started using a low dose hormone that is inserted into the vagina and a feminine moisturizer called vagifem. These did wonders internally.
I am having orgasms like never before, your advise is amazing.
I have never before squirted and now omg, what a feeling. I even sort of pass out sometimes from the intensity!!!!
Brad says
Jason
I have been on your website for almost a month now, and find it really interesting.
I was lucky enough to discover the miracle of “female ejaculations “a few years ago.
I have been going out with my new girlfriend for 18 months.
When we met she was, to say the least , a bit naïve about the sexuality of her body.
Fortunately she became a very willing participant, and we now enjoy a wonderful and fulfilling love life .
By the way, I am 61 and she is 44.
Women are lovely at that age!!!
I have always found the phrase “squirting “a bit basic .However true.
We now always refer to these moments of delight as her having her own little or big “tsunami “.
If you think of the action of the natural event, you will agree that it is very similar in action.
It is really amazing how powerful this orgasm is.
She is absolutely exhausted after our love making and literally drops into a really deep sleep. Smiling of course.
I find that when we both know she is about to reach that peak, she starts kissing me and holds my free hand so hard that her body is in a state of tension.
Like a spring.
As with some woman, she also talks “in tongues “during this phase .I never knew she was bi lingual!!!
After the first wave, I always ease back with the caressing for maybe a minute, but not too long, and then start again.
The second, third and more waves are always stronger, until she and I just run out of energy!
One thing for sure. I have this woman’s attention for life.
We chat about it on whatsapp, which really gets her ready for action. Thank goodness for “apps!!”
Thanks for your very informative illustrations and videos.
Although we are very fortunate to be part of the minority, there is always something new to consider.
For instance, I had never heard of the “u” spot.
I know she enjoys that area to be caressed, but never knew the name.
Keep the info coming.
Kind Regards
Brad
Old Racer says
My wife and I were married for 18 years but divorced primarily because we did not meet each other’s sexual needs and we have now been divorced for 36 years. During that time my ex wife had two long relationships with men who were the gold standard when it came to making love and now that we are back together again I have felt inadequate until I started reading your blogs, sharing them with her and buying some grape seed oil. Jason, do you think that it is possible for a female to squirt at 75 years old?
GM says
Hi there,
I’m 48, happily married for 26 years. I thought our sex life was fine, sex has always frequent , plenty of clitoral orgasms (including multiple up to 15 in one session) always been very close. Then husband started doing things different, I was hugely suspicious to start with until he finally came clean about stumbling onto your website Jason. Well, was what can I say, we enjoy amazing sex, i can now have squirting orgasms, which in succession is totally mind blowing. Your techniques combined with going thru menopause, children leaving the house, me being very fit and healthy and feeling good about myself has me now wanting sex, almost annoyingly, all the time. I said lately it was ecstasy and he corrected me and said no, its Pure Ecstasy! It has made our relationship even closer, I mean what would you not do for a man who gives you pure ecstasy!!
I do have tip if u are having trouble getting to a squirting orgasm. Try standing leaning over table or kitchen bench, my husband says its very easy to stimulate g spot this way. Gives new meaning to mopping kitchen floor and saves the bed.
Leslie says
Thank you!!
I’m 62 and my husband died 6 years ago. I just married a wonderful man and am having more and better sex than I ever have!
steve says
Extraordinary good advices:)
Avril says
Hi Jason. You have done a great job on all if your research into the female orgasm. I am 53 and still keep active and thus, pretty well preserved. Lol
Earlier this year I had a partner that directly stulated my G-spot and did I ever get wet. I decided I wanted to see how it looked. So I set up my laptop and proceeded to play. I started squirting so much and so hard, I thought I was peeing. I could not stop.
I squirted all over my laptop and over it onto the floor. I was sp proud oft self.
You are so right about the increase in testosterone levels. My recent blood tests showed I am just starting menopause and my testosterone levels are very high. Oh yeah, go girl.
Thanks for all your posts! Very informative reading.
P. S. my partner and I are going to set up a target on the wall. I am squirting hard and far! Teehe
Brenda says
I’m 52 and ex had me convinced that our lack of sex life was my fault. I have met a great guy 5 years older and he has me squirting like crazy. One nite he had me squirt more than 18 times. His poor bed if it could talk. We use underpads and it has lowered the wetness problem.
Ida says
Thanks SO MUCH, Jason,
64!/2 and squirting like crazy! Been doing it for years and didn’t know what it was. Have the right man (finally) and all is working fine for me. He has a problem with P.E., but we’re going to take advantage of your program for that and all will be well – Well, better than well. I am so thrilled to have accidentally run into your website while looking for some other thing. Thanks again for the vast improvement in our lives.
Barbara says
Jason,
Just want to let you know that I am 2 weeks away from 64 and am still able to have bed soaking orgasms. I’ve been divorced for over 10 years and my ex had me convinced that I was “frigid”. After the divorce I believed that my sexuality was dead and gone and that I was not desirable or “marketable”. A couple of years ago I started chatting and flirting with guys online. I soon discovered that my libido wasn’t dead and I still had some spunk left in me. Now, I still haven’t had a date or had sex, so I have to take care of myself, if you get my drift, but like I said, I can still soak the bed. So spread the word, there’s an old gal in Maryland who can still get it on
Barb
Ker says
AWESOME Barb!!!!
Ida says
Go Barbara!
I’m your age and situation, except I found THE guy to turn those old buttons back on and OMG! He must have been JASON’S daddy! Best of luck in your search, but don’t settle for second best. Women like us deserve guys who want to give it all and reap the rewards of having great women like us!!!
BirdieVegan says
Good going- both of you! I never believed that the man could make such an enormous difference until I got back with my former lover in 2012 (2 month long trips, making love every night). We are still very close friends and he says I’m the best woman he’s ever known but he is not planning to retire from business in Illinois, while I hate the weather there and invested in my house in Phoenix with a nice pool and room for all my art work. This is a big valley so now that people can be more outspoken, I hope to find one here. Sex buddy to (other) depends on other stuff that is not important to me at this time. What will be –
ranjith says
HI JASON
AFTER GOING THROUH UR ADVISE &TEACHING ON ORGSMS WE ARE VERY VERY HAPPY ON OUR FMILEY LIFE (G SPOT= A SPOT= ALL SPOT) WELL DONE.
edward says
I’m a bit confused about something. I know a woman she’s 44. She would always tease me about having sex but wouldn’t ever have any with me. She is a very heavy drinker and i found out she smokes a lot of pot. I’m glad I never had sex with her since i found that out, I think she takes other drugs also. She has a few different partners also I believe. My question is if she’s messed up and her partners are drunk and messed up how can the sex be any good? And how will her substance abuse affect her ability to even have good sex and will the substance abuse affect her and bring on menopause early?
Anna says
I really don’t think her smoking pot would have done you any harm. Can safely say it doesn’t affect my sex drive or life. Personal experience.
I’m not sure why you care so much about if. It sounds like the reason she wouldn’t Have sex with you is because you don’t sound very compatible.
There is a big difference between a couple of drinks and someone who gets intentionally wasted.
Tanya says
Hey just want to say from a woman who will be 49 this month … I am very intune with my body and to be honest my sex life is better now then it ever was… I have had vaginal and clitoral orgasms. I have been squirting now for over 8 years . Ithink that having young teenage kids helps me keep young in mind and heart,, I have been approached by more younger men now days then men my own age and that surprises me some what.. I have dated a few of them and they tell me that sex with me is the best they ever had… well now since they are in their mid twenties they could not of had that many to compair with … but it feels good to know I still am attractive to younger men… and yes I do enjoy them,,, As I get older it gets harder to keep this body in tune and that is the hardest part for a woman… the fact that she is getting older and it is hard to accept for a lot of women..
I think we all go through that denial stage.. once we get that out of our heads we can accept the fact, once you do though you will find that age is just a number and there are so many young men out there that want an older womans experience and most say that they prefer older women over women their own age… funny how that works isnt it… men get older and wnat younger women and women get older want younger men,.. to me I enjoy younger men they make me feel wanted still and that is important for a woman to still feel like she is desirable to men of all ages… I love life .. sex is a gift to explore and enjoy no matter what age…
Ms says
I too, have had the same general experience, Tanya! I am 50 and have two early 20s kids. I was at first a bit shocked when I became aware of the sexual interest that much younger men displyed toward me, so I asked them about it. The general concensus was that the grace, bearing, confidence, and approachability of older women were the first attraction. l, like you, I have been told that the sex was better than with women their own age, and I think some of that is due to how much more relaxed we older women are about life in general~~exactly what you shared with us, Jason! My scooling included a lot of biology and psycology, and as I read today’s post, I found myself nodding throughout! Information is truly powerful, Jason~~so once again, thank you from the multitude out here!!
delores says
thanks for showing us the video squirt I have had them so many of them I love having them so when we foreplay I always hey i want to always him to make me squirt we also try other ways the same day any I have more orgasm again thank-you
Scott says
I’m 55 and right now with a 46 year old woman, she is tuned with her body better than any woman I’ve been with. I used some of your tricks on her and it’s blew her mind. She claims I
made her feel like no other man has and will not leave me alone. She is always ready for sex and squirts and floods my bed with orgasms whenever I want her.
Thanks for putting up!
Stephen says
Jason: Your information is awesome. Been dating my girl for about five months and have nicknamed her Oceans Eleven. Eleven vaginal orgasms in one night! Her orgasms were clitoral in the beginning and I thought she would never have them vaginally. I just kept using your techniques and one day it happened while we were making love. She did squirt on a date before we ever had sex and cannot seem to get that in yet but it is great.
BARRY says
thank you for educating us……you are a good teacher, making our learning quite interesting. Keep it up.
Bomsy says
I am a 25yrs old girl.I enjoy all your blogs bt I have never squirt before.What will I do to squirt?
Lubi says
Bomsy, dnt worry much. I can mak u squirt very well. I lik u. Were are u?
Jason Julius says
@Stephen Yes, consuming alcohol will make it harder for her to have an orgasm
– Jason Julius
stephen says
does drinking stop a women have a orgasm my ex partner drinks up to 15unites a day gin & lemonade wine or cocktails the only time she has a orgasm is in the morning after she has had a night sleep
steve uk
Traeldor says
I am in the opposite Boat, I’ve been married 27 years and My wifes libido has dwindled to once every two months. Heh I’m still Three times a day kinda guy and I”m 50. She just turned fifty as well. HOWEVER………. when we do have sex, she will have anywhere from 5 to 25 orgasms, depending on stress levels. and over HALF of them contain ejaculation. She is vibrator dependant on clitoral orgasms, though….. but intercourse yields anywhere from one to ten depending on whether or not its a quickie. LOL.
Her libido has decreased, though her ability to have orgasms has increased, her desire for them has decreased. Though body shaking, ,squirting……. full vaginal orgasms,,,, she could care less on whether or not she has them.
so Many points from this blog hit home for Me.
So dont worry Ladies. Its awesome…… dont hold back…… just relax , and enjoy the ride… Huah!!!!
PSST. if y’all are ever in SC, gimme a HOller……. (winks) LOL.
julie says
Hi, I am Julie and I’m 53 years old. I was married for 23 years and slowly our sex deplented to the point of cohabitation. I wanted to be sexualy active but I ended up getting a divorce. My sexual activity has greatly increased in the last eight years. Dating and meeting numerous men has allowed me to experience light orgasms. After reading this article, I am in agreeance with what I have read . I have met my sexual soul mate, and he has shown me the epitome a powerful mind blowing orgasm. Thank you for sharing this information, and I hope to continue learning different information concerning sex.
clive popotai says
what matters most is psychological factors and death of a lifelong partner ,otherwise they can still enjoy even more because sex is all about mind
Rick says
I have been dating an older woman (13 yrs my senior) and she has given me the pleasure of pleasing her. Yeah she is totally awesome to be with. Thnks for the info dude. I never had a problem with pleasing a woman but this 53 yr mature Lady rocks my world. Keep the good info coming…Rick
Alvin says
Hi Jason,
Thank you for the Blog ,
I am currently in a relationship with a woman 10 years my senior , I am 57 and her sexual drive is very high . We live a 100 miles apart . I just recently spent 2 and half days with her and she had two very intense orgasms with floods of little ones following and a total of 5 in the period I was there . This was directly related to the learning from your site about vaginal orgasms . In my youth I have expreienced this with several women and had no ideal what made them happen until I found your site. I am in the prcoess of buying the Orgasm Blue Print from you, too bad we didn’t have this tool in my younger days .
Thanks
Alvin
Average says
thank you so much for sharing us these thing bro you really are an Sex Educator.. more power
Ly-An Donoga says
thanks……..thumbs up!!!!!!!!
Ly-An Donoga says
Thank you so much for sharing info Jason, i am 24 years old now and sexually active. My boyfriend and i really enjoy making love. We both satisfied and did 7-8 round a night. He cannot sleep without me.
bimalroy123 says
Thank you Jason,
you are really a best master of the secret art
it is most effective & encourage me for the action.
Virginia says
I am in my late-fifties and sex has never been better. Sexually maturing in the late 60’s and early 70’s, during the age of “free love” and before the AIDS epidemic, I’ve had over three dozen sexual partners since I lost my virginity to a wonderful man (6 years my senior) whom I was truly in love with. After two failed marriages, I have met my sexual soul mate and he is gently leading me towards anal sex and squirting orgasms. We spend hours pleasuring each other and can’t wait to get our hands on each other!
elizabeth says
i am so glad to read this, i thought i was getting out of control … many thanx
lois says
At age 55 I am just now beginning to enjoy sex. I am more relaxed, kids have left home, no more crazy ideas about the accepted body image. My husband is so happy, and we are having more enjoyable sex now than we did 25 years ago. We take hours to enjoy ourselves. Just enjoyed my first “squirting” thanks to your guidance Julius. Awesome !! Can’t get enough now.
Mame says
I thought i was done with sex I never even thought about it much, so busy. I have not had a man for 15 years. At age 72 i met a man that i fell in love with (first time in love…love at first sight). I kid you not i can orgasm 3 times a night. I have never enjoyed sex like this before. The bliss, the joy unbelievable!
Ms says
Congratulations, Mame!!!! I have already shared your story with my 50-60 yr old circle of friends, and we voted yours the “Best Love Story of the Year”!
BirdieVegan says
I had also given up on sex sometime before 1990 and “not being worth the risk” as only one man I had ever gave me vaginal orgasm (back in 1976-79) and since we were just platonic friends. I was returning to his city for my daughter’s 3rd wedding in 2012 and he offered me to stay with him and we somehow started talking about sex. He woke up my demons again! I am very easily aroused and now I can’t make so many trips there, he does not plan to retire (because he can work as much as he needs to live well) and I don’t really want to leave my beautiful house (bought in 1998). He is not unusual in size, only in shape (most men have little to no neck) so it resembles a straight pole. I wonder if your men also have shapely penises (or am I the only one who desires that??)
render54 says
I’m a 65 year old woman and i still have sex drives but my man lives in a cal and i have not seen him for a year and half but we still talk sex on the phone and both enjoy it very well i know it’s not the same as being here but we keep the fire burning and we love each other very much but is their any thing else we can do to make it better until we see each other if will you let me know.i though i was finsh with sex until i met him and it was great….
abdu says
send me video orgasm