This post is about Conceptual Blending and how to use it in “designing” a better Orgasmic Experience for you and your partner.
Conceptual Blending is the process of overlapping two seemingly unrelated thoughts or concepts into a new idea or insight. Bringing together two or more ideas that have never been put together to improve upon something, or invent something completely new, is at the heart of the creative process. What does it have to do with enhancing your potential for giving your partner Orgasms? Uncovering this process gives you a powerful way to continue to ALWAYS improve upon how you give your lover pleasure.
Conceptual Blending is behind virtually every great invention we use and take for granted today. Dick Drew sold sandpaper, but saw an undiscovered need for paper with adhesive, and Masking Tape was born. George de Mestral came up with Velcro after noticing burrs clinging to the fur of his dog. Larry Page and Sergey Brin developed Google’s search algorithm by applying the ranking method used for academic articles to the world wide web. In each of these examples, the new concept was simply a mixture of old ideas.
Of course the mind needs to make some conscious effort to find the importance for relating such ideas. Unfortunately since sex is such a taboo subject, rarely do new ideas get blended with or applied to our primal act of mating. This leaves our sex lives out of touch with new discoveries. There are many concepts that we could apply to giving our partner orgasms, but most of us never make those associations. Sex is often thought to be naughty, dirty, and impolite to talk about… so it’s scarce that ANY new associations are made with it.
This leaves sex “off limits”, or in the dark, in the minds of even the brightest individuals. Mixing new ideas with sex becomes irrelevant or unimportant to the mind. The same tendency that keeps us from contemplating irrelevant concepts also keeps us from coming up with insights. This blocks the endless creative flow of possibilities for improving our sex lives. Breakthroughs come when we apply old solutions to new situations, but if your mind doesn’t see the importance of relating such solutions to your sex life, then the new associations will never be uncovered.
I’m not implying that you should relate everything in your life to sex (although that might be fun). However, I’m telling you that if you leave your mind open to sexual associations, you will make discoveries and find new techniques that would have otherwise been overlooked. It could be as simple as taking note that your woman loves chocolate, and remembering that you want her to be more enthusiastic about giving you a blowjob. What if you put chocolate syrup on your penis, and had her suck it off? Could this make her more excited about blowjobs? Just like that a new association is created, and something new is introduced in the bedroom!
Allowing your mind to lucidly open up to making these associations creates a world of opportunity. It could be as simple as chocolate blowjobs, or as abstract as applying Psychological techniques for inducing a trance like state during A Spot stimulation. It’s the very premise of keeping the mind open to making these associates that will benefit your creativity for keeping things fun in the bedroom.
This leads to a world of new ideas for sexual techniques. This is how you discover ideas such as using Threshold Consciousness to make her squirt. It’s how you find new ways to get her excited about sex, such as using text messaging to turn her on. And it’s this premise that I’ve used to model and figure out techniques for things like lasting longer during sex.
You might even say that this very blog post is a cocktail of the concept of “Conceptual Blending” blended with the principle of how to be creative in the bedroom, combined to give a deeper understanding of the very process we use to create an outcome. It starts with planting the seed of keeping your mind open to creating these new associations, and hopefully it ends with her body shaking uncontrollably in ecstasy.
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