Sex Position – The Coital Alignment Technique
The Coital Alignment Technique or CAT is a great sex position for
women that have a hard time having an orgasm during sex.
Where as most positions don’t directly stimulate the clitoris
the Coital Alignment Technique is a variation of the missionary
position that’s designed to maximize clitoral stimulation
during intercourse.
How it works is the man positions himself in the same way he
would for normal missionary position and then enters the woman.
The woman can also wrap her legs around his if she wishes.
He then moves his body up the woman until the base of his penis
is near or on her clitoris.
Then instead of thrusting you take turns rocking back and fourth
keeping constant pressure on the clitoris with the base of your penis.
The constant pressure on the clitoris and subtle movements is what
this position is all about.
The CAT can take a little practice to get good at since there is no
thrusting involved, but once mastered it’s a great position to add
to your arsenal.
Talk Soon,
Jason Julius
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Thanks for the info but I need more info about g spot and squirting orgasms.
I got married almost 2 years ago (age 21) and my husband was 28. He releases extremely fast (about a few seconds and 1 minute at most). We went to the doctor and he said everything is medically fine. Till today I still don’t even know what an orgasm is. There is just no way for me to orgasm if he lasts so short. Can you please tell me what to do so he should last long? (we already tried so many things). PLEASE HELP!!!
How do I get her to squirt all over me…:)
Thanks for sharing ,,, i will try it very soon!!
Jason,
my bf dont want to look at your blog, cause he thinks its not nessesery..
he is good.. but he cal learn so much from you.. how can I make him lokk at you blog?
(sorry for my bad englisch, im from holland
^^)
if don’t know what is orgasm…………..??????????????????
I’m 31, have 3 kids, got married in 2005 at the age of 25, I had intercourse for the first time on the day of my wedding, I never had boyfrend before because of my religion.
Every time that I have sex with my husband I make him feel like if he is the king of the word and he thinks that he is making me feel the same but it is not true because i feel nothing at all apart from pain of course.
So ,what is your advise for me please.
Jason, you know how to treat women. You are right in every word you say. Do you want to be my boyfriend? XD.
Kisses
Carla
What can I do to “last longer” with my wife? I suffer from PE
I Like Your Shorter Hair Version, I’am 63yrs old, and I like The more Mature Look. and also my new wife feels more confident, in your words of wisdom from the older look. No doubt From My past Readings of many articles. Your the Best with your down to Earth explanations. THANKS….Frank.
Julius, you are so correct in what you say about making your woman feel loved, special, beautiful happy and content. I can relate to where you are coming from. I felt all those things but sadly he passed away last year having reconnected with me after him 33 yrs It is just being together and finding your soulmate to make this so complete which can make life together so beautiful.
Jason, What do you have on positions and spots to hit during anal sex that make her squirt and flood the bed?
What can I do to “last longer” with my wife? I won’t say that I suffer from PE,but I know that there are times when we are really passionate when I know more extreme pleasure is around the corner for her if I could last a bit longer.
i dont understand how to do it, i need a visual image or something to get it
The very first time my wife and I ever had sex we kinda accidentally did the CAT technique. She must have came 7 or 8 times in about half an hour!!! Also if she’s cool with it you can slip a finger in her back door for an even more intense experience for her. For anyone who hasn’t tried the CAT technique…. DO IT!!! She’ll love it. Mr. Julius won’t steer ya wrong.
You mentioned the 2 types of female orgasms ,clitoris and G spot but you didnt mentioned doing both at the same time, so i like to know while massaging her g spot with 2 fingers or 1 and at the same time licking the clitoris will she have a bigger explosion or not ?
Thanks for this position, i can tell my girls going to love it
oh yeah, thanks for i think it was the g-spot video, i’v made her cum twice
One question, first time it didnt take to long, second time it took quite awhile, but its starting to take so long that my arm literally doesnt have the strength to continue, any tips?
hi friends
I just wanna say thanks to you man! My sex life has never been the same.
I’m a 27 year old woman and i’ve tried this position it does wonders! Especially on a second round when you more wet. All i can say is it feels good i even told my fiance that he just does it for me. My quation is how do i slowly introduce him to oral sex because he is having problems in that department.
This has me stumped. I was with a rather hot young thing and, she was on top and just starting a good rythum. I reached out on my night table for some lube and I found a pin. Out of curiosity, I pricked her ass when I was inside of her and she screamed and exploded all over the place. Big smile on her face and mine.
I have found that this position or something very similar was the first and “most likely to succeed” way for me to have an orgasm. The difference is: I tilted my pelvis up so that my clit was against his mounds? not the base of his shaft. and all he had to do was stay straight above me and stay hard. I would pivot and grind while just moving him slightly toward my head and back down. The problem is….My current lover needs the in and out thrusts to keep hard and there is no friction for this, so when I get close to orgasm, he isnt as hard as necessary anymore….I think this is an A spot and clitoral orgasm together for me and is really awesome when it works. Still havent cum from the G-spot stimulated by hand. workign on it.
You can try anything and everything, it only works if you are in the non-stressed situation as well as create both a mental as well as a physical atmosphere for both involved.
You will see how well it works. See and understand what her likes are. Start slow with several sensual moves. Have her turned on, have conversations and operate and enjoy what she does. This all makes it very enjoyable for both. As a male, don’t be selfish, her needs should come first only, then you will keepp her satisfied and then you will be first for her.
Hey…Now you are talking. Iti si one of the ways to have her have an orgasm. There are quite a few as you know. It depends upon ones stamina. I have no problems as I am an oral artist and am possess a terrific stamina. The state of mind and the mind as well creating the atmosphere are a very important part of the play.
@Bishop – I like to use All Natural Grape Seed Oil, but don’t use it if you’re going to be using condoms. In the case of condom sex you need to use a water based lube.
What is the best lubricant to use that will last a long time. Also one that will help to reach the G-spot better too.
What’s the best way to lick the cat to really make her cum like crazy.
That’s one of the techniques I use with my wife (CAT) and it works very well. We found variations for it. Sometimes the woman doesn’t want to do the work of rocking. That’s fine. You can grab her butt and pull her in towards your body, which keeps the pressure between her clit and the base of your penis. And then you do the rocking while keeping her tight in.
Thanks men. I have tried that with my wife its good. It makes her screem all the time, I’m there. Bravo
I like what I’m reading, but I’m on a tight, fixed income! Can I make payment to get a book, or volunteer to help in your next book! (Man over 50, and loves live!)
i really enjoy reading all that you say… now i have to leaRN WHAT TOO DO
I WILL TRY THEM SOON AND I WILL LET YOU KNOW HOW IT TURNS OUT
THANKS PAL
FYI, for those having trouble keeping it up, check Tim Ferris’s 4 hour body regarding testosterone therapy with fermented fish oil, butter oil, and D3. And the Kegel exercises.
Haven’t seen my girlfried for a while (work) but the last 2 nights I’ve blown her mind with my stamina. And this website hasn’t hurt. I’m 45, and I feel like a 22 year old in the sack
yes this is one we use when she wants to orgasm.It works everytime.
Craver- I had the same problem. I’m 48 and had a hysterectomy at 38. Have been given horomones in the past, but nothing helped until I had my hormone levels checked through blood work and bio-identical hormone pellets of estrogen and testosterone which I was very low on inserted in my hip. Sex is awesome again and I recommend any woman having menopausal issues to get your hormones tested. This can be one of the best times of your life sexually if you take control of your health.
My gal likes it missionary, thrusting, hard and fast. I’ve tried it doggie, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, you name it. Once she comes she thunders with muscle twitching. I also like to make her come orally, sucking on her clit, while I stimulate the g-spot with my finger. Man does this ever get her wet. She then pulls me up on top to penetrate her to the big O. Our tops is 10 orgasms in one extended session. I’ve always been good for 40 minutes at a time. Tried for 60, but the back gives out.
All you guys should try sucking on her clit. Tell him if you like it soft or hard. Pull it between your teeth and flick it with your tongue. That should make her come, every time.
Enjoy!
MR JULIUS,
I REQUEST FOR YOUR ADVICE ON MY ISSUE, WHENEVER AM DOING IT WITH MY WIFE,THE PLEASURE MAKES ME COME VERY QUICKLY AND I DON’T GAIN MY ERECTION IMMEDIATELY,AND SHE CONTINUES ASKING ME T SHRUST WHEN AM COMPLETELY OFF.
PS. The couple I mentioned earlier…couldn’t wait to leave my office and check out Jason’s site. Then next morning I got two phone calls …one from each of them… thanking me!
@unsatisfied,
I’ve been asking myself this same question for a long time. i finally figured it out while was working with a couple that wanted to experience “more”…. The female didn’t want to hurt her man’s feelings so I simple presented it to him as a fantasy of hers. I gave them Jason’s web site, along with a few other interesting sites to check out and told them that they needed to go through the material together and pick out things they wanted to experience together.
I told HIM to focus on Jason’s concepts that sex begins in a woman’s mind and he needed to get her out of daily life and into her head aka fantasies. If he started to research what woman’s fantasies are he would find her much more responsive.
From experience I know MEN appreciate it if a women teaches them what they like…it isn’t like there is a place they would normally get to learn this from….it may seem bold or brassy but in the long run you will both be more satisfied. Don’t be afraid. Just be sexy about it.
As a suggestion perhaps getting an outsider to make mention of Jason’s site with positive comments and encouraging both you and your man to check out Jason’s site….if you can’t get someone to make mention of it then try “hey, look what I found”…if you do it together as a learning experience or fantasy fulfillment then perhaps it won’t offend him and make it that much easier for you to talk about. You can also show him something you learned… try a new technique on him and prove that a little learning never hurt anyone!
I’ve asked several men if they would be offended if their wife were to make suggestions and from what I find men don’t get offend as much we (women) think they will. It is more offensive to let it continue on and fake it then to just be upfront in the begining…. DON’T let this behavior continue…that isn’t fair to him.
From what I have researched men think suggestions are sexy, your imput in what goes down in the bed room is exptreemly important to a good relationship. Open communication is much sexier than hiding behind a headache. I do understand that women have a harder time talking about sex with their partner and dirty talk doesn’t come easy for most of us women…but as you will find it turns on most men like a light switch…instant hard on.
Jason, I love what you teach, but I need to know how to present it to my man, so he won’t be hurt. I’ve never had an orgasm, altho I lick and stroke him to orgasm regularly, and I love to be on top ‘in control’ but my orgasm just never happens & then he comes or has me stop, so he won’t, and then I lose my ‘momentum’. He says loves my pussy and when he does go down on me, I guess he just doesn’t do it right, because I never come…I’m beginning to get jealous of his ability to come so easily! At first, he tried really hard and would lick & lick, but now he kind of gives up after a halfhearted attempt, because he knows I’m not going to come anyway.
I love him, but should I move on & try to find someone more committed to help me find what works, or is more experienced? He said I’m his 3rd lover (he’s 47), I would not tell him, but many men have failed to help me orgasm. Masterbating doesn’t excite me enough, like having a lover, but I try…
Do I stay, or do I go? If I stay, how do I get him ‘educated’?
Seriously,
Unsatisfied ( and VERY frustrated)
PS your videos are very hot…wish I was your ‘test torso’ lol!!
@craver Having you tried using any kind of lubrication like Astroglide?
I’m newly in LOVE after a 26 yr. failed marriage… I’m pleased wi
th my newmate. I’ve never been loved & respected the way he treats me. I’m satis!fied for the most part sexually , I’m learning alot of new stuff. Yet I’ve been so dry lately. It’s difficult for him to enter, is something medically wrong with me? I wasn’t like this at first. I’m only 50 years old. Please help! !!
I just had to tell you. I was going to trash my sex toys until yesterday. I put the two batteries in and put the massager on my clit. You cannot believe the pleasure and dynamite orgasm! My only wish is that i had my honey to enjoy this bliss with. I fell in love at age 72 and he really turns me on. Who would believe sex was so great? How did i live my whole life without my soul mate?
Thank. I’ll give this a try tonight. She gets off easilly but never durring intercorse. This sounds like the ticket. Thanks again.
Lil Thunder- I believe, your question has been puzzling women for a long time. For me, I had the idea of improving my skills with women. I discovered that women can have many other types of orgasms. Of course, this info is NOT taught in school, men DON’T talk about it to each other and MOST women DON’T know about the many possibilities. My belief is, he has to want to learn. If he doesn’t, I would recommend that you drop him or find someone who knows or wants to know.
HELLO JASON SO GLAD I CAME ACROSS YOUR SITE , IVE BEEN USING A FEW OF YOUR TECHNIQUES ON MYSELF, …NOW I GOTTA GET MY BF EDUCATED AND TRY A FEW , I PLEASURE HIM , HOW DO I GET HIM TO RECIPROCATE…? PLEASE REPLY…
i have been married for many years and i am bored of sex with my hubby,he is not interested in my needs. i have a lover and he does his very best to make me orgasm, trouble is i cant relax enough please help
it realy fantastic. thank you alot
Oh Man ! Does that work great ! Thank you. and bececoffee is right you are one sexy man.
Now I have to find someone to do that with.
Ive tried dis position lotta times…but i think there are other positions dat works faster smoother and harder that dis….well…seeing woman having orgasm is the greatest pleasure in da world…cheers
jason at 52 have hard time keeping it hard can you give some advise please .. some of thing read this summer have her having 2orgasms a nite and thats just a good licking thank you my friend pat
Oh, I think we allready have this one on our repertoir haha. It´s really great, but we have to work fast cause his erection will not sustain as long as when there is more in´n´out action. We got a couple of those penisrings but haven´t tried it yet.
you know you are one sexy MF!!!
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